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You are the placebo. Inverse psychosomatics and faith. ​The power of words and intention.

No matter what type of problems and dis-harmonies you have in life, there is a great benevolent force of goodness encouraging your journey.

You are the placebo. Inverse psychosomatics and faith.

You are the placebo. Inverse psychosomatics and faith.

Posted by McGill Media on Thursday, May 24, 2018

Watch the video above for an important message about your power.

The worst lies are the ones we tell ourselves. The worst verbal abuse comes from our own tongue. The most negative influence is the devil on our own shoulder. The cruelest judge is the one staring back in the mirror. The person really withholding the love you need is you. No one will ever out-do you at playing mind-games. You must stop doing this to yourself!

The universe is calling you to heal, not to agonize over your mistakes.

Quit overthinking; this is what surrendering really means. Don't focus on negativity and don't even obsess about “fixing” things or yourself. Don't force “positive thinking.” These things can be psychological irritants. Just leave yourself alone! When you pick at things they never heal. Just relax and give yourself some time.

Primal doubts are the worst!

Primal doubts are the worst; I'm ugly, I'm fat, I'm not smart or good enough. The difficult thing is that no matter how inaccurate — primal doubts can seem very real — and what seems real is real in a psychosomatic sense. And, the world can indeed judge us very harshly, and those judgments can truly impact our lives in ways that are catastrophic to our self-image if we are not deeply secure in ourselves. But no matter how the world judges us, it's ultimately our inner demons that we contend with day-to-day; a fight no one can win for us, but ourselves.


The battle takes place in the mind and is fought with our inherited and modeled skills, and our inner-voice.

I receive thousands of letters from people begging for help with their primal doubts; women with wounded hearts who hate their bodies; young girls with scars on their faces from accidents; people with a wandering eye or some imperfection that takes center stage in their own dialogue of personal tragedy that never seems to end. These letters weigh so heavily upon my heart. Sometimes I will go and look at the photos of the person who has sent me a message. I never see what they see. I gravitate toward the beauty in life. I don't see the scar. The scar is lost in the landscape of the total person; the smile, the laughter, the twinkling in an eye — the landscape of a person is so large that minor details are lost as the human being shines through. But, this is how I see the world; this is how I see people. Primal doubts are often based on a small reality that cannot be denied and is then amplified. You cannot argue with someone's loneliness. You cannot argue with someone's desperation when it is based on years of rejection. These are real problems. I want to reach out to them and show them what I see. But that's the problem; they don't see what I see.

“Comparison is an act of violence against the self.” — Iyanla Vanzant

Comparison is always the beginning of the death of self-love. Comparison is a daily brutalization against the self-esteem. Comparison sets the mark on its daily measure toward inevitable failure, and inadequacy. It doesn't matter how beautiful you are because there is always someone more beautiful. It doesn't matter how intelligent you are because there is always someone more intelligent. It doesn't matter how much money you have because there is always someone with more money. It doesn't matter how successful you are because there is always someone more successful. You see, this is a game you can never win. It does not matter how real your perceived deficits are; what matters is how you give life to them and amplify them through comparison and judgment against yourself. You are the supreme adjudicator of worthiness in your life. You decide how satisfied you are with yourself; no one else. You must cease all viciousness toward yourself once and for all. You can only evolve beyond the vicious self-analysis and violent comparison to others through loving yourself. If you can silence your constant judging you can have deeper levels of love and friendship with others and yourself. 


At the center of your being is a tender spirit of benevolence and goodness.

At the center of your being is a tender spirit of benevolence and goodness. Learning to love yourself is really a process of learning to trust this benevolence. There is beauty and strength in your animated spirit that defies death with each supporting breath. Even if you don't think you love yourself — you do. You live! You struggle! You move towards warmth and support. You have a tremendous will for life! You are moving in life toward a calling that pulls you ever forward. No matter what type of problems and dis-harmonies you have in life, there is a great benevolent force of goodness encouraging your journey. Don't be hobbled by the petty dramas of the world, or by comparison and illusions of inadequacy and insignificance. Never doubt the treasure of your matchless life. What is unique has no comparison. Be so loving to yourself.

Self-kindness can be applied to your inner-relationship, like salve to the insecurities that arise within you.

Allow the tender benevolence within you to be ever so generous and kind with your self appraisals. Self-kindness can be applied to your inner-relationship, like salve to the insecurities that arise within you. You have a great and innate ability to express love and kindness inward in a way that nurtures your own insecurities. You can chose to be merciful to yourself. You can begin with one simple acknowledgement of gratitude. Start with one kind thought about yourself this moment.

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Sole
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Thank you Bryant and Jenni for this beautiful broadcast. I hope it will open the mind of many who always saying blahh blahhh blahhh. I have encountered those kind of people many times and i feel pity for them. They said blahhh blahhh blahhh because they can’t accept what we are saying are true… this broadcast is an eye opener. Thank you once again

Wong Lok
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Thank you so much for this meaningful article that actually helps me to be happier about myself. 😀 i start to be aware of self-judgement in terms of personality and character improvements are indeed judgement and should be avoided. There’s must be a better way to express the improvement. It can be done through gratitude of life and expression of what solution can be. I can give life to solution with my words. Thanks a lot for your kind reminder and as always, ciao for now 😀 have a wonderful day and night 😀 much love, form hk, loklok

Kimberly Lentz
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Kimberly Lentz

Hi guys! I have learn through my Bible about watching what I say. Speaking negatively brings negative. Speaking positively brings positive. I feel I am getting better about speaking & thinking more positive in my life. Things are going much better for me. I’m happier than I use to be. I try to remember I cannot change people to be or think the way I do. I have even got to the point of letting go of friends & family members who bring hurt, pain, or negative discord into my life. Having more positive thoughts & speaking more positive about things in my life have really changed me. I feel more lighthearted. Instead of feeling heavy burdened.

This is Kimberly Lentz from Jefferson, Iowa.

Robina fazal
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Thanks!Sir Bryant and Sweet Butterfly.. 🦋👯‍♀️Mam Jenni..💖👑💐for a nice broad cast..It’s really inspiring.. and meaning ful.. Full of wisdom….and beautiful thoughts…that really uplifts one’s Soul and mind….and provoke’s positive..energy….zeal and zest in…all…to Love oneself more…and enjoy a real…Stable.. happy blessed life…and to make one own self….a better person..and to make others more happy..in ease and comfortý..However any behaviour is irritating or good…treat them well…Listen..don’t argue..with a pleasant gesture…Beautiful soothing words you can ease the hardest tough soul…who thinks he can control everything and he is he…wht he says wht his motto of life is right….We face challenges all through our lives..we have to face negative behaviours.. attitudes ..feelings..emotions.. e.t.c..in our day to day life..we have to be patient enough..Stable.. positive . Courageous.. cool,relaxxx..and calm to treat people well with our beautiful thoughts..words…doings…behaviours.. that can make us more calm..positive ..relaxed a happy..and can effect good on others..who ever they are..Love and gratitude is the beauty of life.. To lead a healthy life..we have to be on Some ñomes.Life is never easy we have to make it easy and pleasant with our love..care..gratitude.. positive approaches..Love yourself…Be keen to explore who you are wht are you desires.. passions .wht are your treasures.. and then make room for yourselves in your life timetable.. be with your self.. use your instincts .ideas.. judgements..words….powers and energies to ease your Soul,mind and body to have a better version of yours…to çreat a better healthy happy life for you..and to ease Souls and minds with love..care..compassion and gratitude..it’s life..It’s God Almighty’s gift for us…So Love yourself and be a Source of love for all human’s and creatures in this world…Others will move forward with you..Just trust on yourself and your instincts..and the power and energy in your own self……One Single Soul is so blessed by God Almighty that it can do miracles…..and it’s the love…that makes the close ….Soul to Soul love….that’s the divine love that can make us more human…and positive…One person can’t be complete unless..he or she is loving..caring for others .and one is contected to one another like beads..through out our lives….we are all one..we need…each other.. we are meant to work with each other…we have to benefit each other.. we have to love..care….and useful for each other.. So love yourself and move forward in life be with others..close to their hearts and Souls..and transfer positive,loving..energies into each other….it’s the best way to live a healthy..happy..purposeful life….💖👑Amen

Sue Smith
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Beautiful! Thank you Robina! 👑💖

Jana
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Jana

I haven’t followed all the posts however this seams to be one of the best. Thank you so much! I’ve come already through these things and don’t need any approval but your “simple reminding” is the everyday inspiration that we all need – just keep me going the right direction. Love

michelle
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michelle

wow thats mad i didn’t know you spend all that money to help others i know why you do because you are truly amazing people it’s more than just a business to you both you have the pure hearts for what you do i would look the word up but can’t spell it lol im michelle moulton from england i’ve been following you both now for four bit years in that time my life’s been a roller coaster until i heard what you had to say i value your support deeply its help me beyond belief with the tool and skills just sometimes hearing what we already helps..

Joan Dorothy Vendlinger
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Joan Dorothy Vendlinger

Hi Bryant, I was crying when I read this and watched your video. And you are right.. .the WORD WAS IN THE WORLD.. and God spoke the WORD AND CREATED THE UNIVERSE. SOoooo our words also create our own universe .. YOU GOT IT RIGHT…Our words help create our reality… wellness, sickness, love, hate, forgiveness the words we speak DO not only affect us but all those that hear the words. My dad’s words of comparison and judgment still exist in the deep places of my mind and need, must be replaced with loving kind words of acceptance, and MY reality. I Know I am good, loving, kind, forgiving, giving, and deserve to be loved and secure and happy. NOt taken for granted, not emotionally abused or controlled by a sick husband. 20 yrs of loneliness is enough! I AM WORTHY OF LOVE, AND ALL GOOD THINGS. THANK YOU. XOXOXOXOLOVE JOAN V.

Pamela Leigh
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Simply Powerful

“We feel a divine obligation to share what we know.” Jenny Young McGill

“What words can do, can be undone by words.” Bryant Mcgill

hannekepiek10
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Hello i am from the Netherlands and follow you already a few years. My life is still a big mess.. it helps to read you simpel reminders every day.. i can’t get my life back on track. Losing job’s Health and life partner. I want to learn from you. Thanks very much what you do for us.. need help to believe in my self again.. thanks

Kara Jackson
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Kara Jackson

Amazing and true Soul Food Literally it really spoke to me this Broadcast .
I appreciate I’m very Social already on Social media…I’ve always appreciate people and cared about people truly because I take friendships to heart I’ve learned along the way not everyone does as I do…It reminded me when I was younger how popular you get when people want something from you those aren’t the friends I want. Even as an adult it happens.
I want to be who I’ve always been a good friend a mom yes I will be there for people it’s me but I want to have Authentic relationships it’s very important to me it’s never a nice thing to know people use people.
Just realness which seemed to come natural being a people person.
Now as I keep working on myself I’ll have more to Give.
That’s who I am and I want to include people that cared and were there or showed me a better way.
This spoke to me in many ways I’m going rib watch again too.
I have something to give back we all do I believe wholeheartedly.
Im working again on Being Comfortable live Streaming again.
I really like it…but I do want to present well I’ll kerp practicing till it’s easily done.
Then I know I’m getting better and grown immensely it’s a great way to Communicate.
No such thing as perfect but there is practice and hard work.❤️

Kim Bellanca
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Dear Bryant & Jenni: I watched your broadcast (via: Facebook). I believe we need to be ourselves & not feel like we’re walking(on egg shells), because what is said(could offend others): & we should have that freedom(1st Amendment)to do/say what we mean”Be Authentic” If someone doesn’t like it-Don’t listen/Don’t watch/No one is forcing you to like something you don’t like! “Just Sayin”! Peace/Love & Light! Have A Blessed Evening To All!

PRABHAKAR RAJARAPU
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PRABHAKAR RAJARAPU

AMEN

moregonbp
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Thank you Jenni and Bryant for another great broadcast. I need to read this again 🙂

Taylor Tomlin
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Taylor Tomlin

🙏

EVE
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EVE

Hey there!
I think that is happening to me right now….
This…started two years ago…I chosed to believe solder….American solder who was in Africa at the time….
Long story short…Im in 60000euros in debt…Everybody thinks he’s using me….
I think he’s not….I have spoken with him almost every day…
There is many things I can’t explane…
I don’t believe in medios….But I have contacting couple….They told about this quite accured….
I contact one last summer…and 4 in last 3 months…All told about this….That this is universes test.
but that wont take away this stress that I’m dealing with all those loancomppanies or the fact what Im doing affects on everybody near…family and relatives the most….
Perhaps I should tell also that I was at serious caraccident 31 years ago,had serious braindamage……witch gives me great deal of everyday problems….Stressing over….Money means very little when I’m so worried about him….
I should remain positive…

EVE
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EVE

this could be also that he is doing this out of spite…That he wants to hurt me even more

EVE
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EVE

everything is so weird….

Khalida wild
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I love you guys😘😘😘

Lalie
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Lalie

Thank you for sharing this very informative article and video Bryant and Jenni. So much to learn about the psychosomatic effects of words and judgements on our bodies. Negative statements can cause stress and can eventually lead to several physical syntomps, death of the soul as well as the body. I first heard this term from our doctor when I was around 9 0r 10 yrs.of age. He explained to my father that the physical syntomps of allergy I had at that time could be psychosomatic. I only understood what he meant later on.

The article you wrote Bryant is a great reminder for us to practice self care/self love regardless of what’s happening around us. We shouldn’t absorb the negativd effects of external stimuli otherwise, we suffer. Bottom line is we have a chojce on how to react and to stop punishing our self for our perceived flaws and imperfections. 😊💕

Rehan Anwar
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love u both … thxxxxx

Suzan Muhialdeen
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Suzan Muhialdeen

Very inspiring and helpful article .
In fact most of the people are focusing on their small flows they have in their face or body when they look to the mirror instead of looking to the beauty signs they have ,and this causes pain for them .I think it is better not to look to the mirror alot is a good step only when it is necessary to reduce self -criticism, and this leads to increase self – acceptance spcially physically ,and then person could work on self -development and improvment , and also think that he or she has many other special abilities which makes them unique like goodness in heart ,intelligence ,….,this kind of positive thinking leads to happiness, and gratitude to the blessings.

Gail Liming
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Gail Liming

The article was written very well, it is so insightful and truthful that I’m unable to say more. Never sabotage your own self-worth or self-identity in exchange for others who may be suffering from the same issues even more so than yourself. Thanks for writing.

Tiffany Newsome
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Tiffany Newsome

psy·cho·so·mat·ic
ˌsīkōsəˈmadik/Submit
adjective
adjective: psychosomatic
(of a physical illness or other condition) caused or aggravated by a mental factor such as internal conflict or stress.
“her doctor was convinced that most of Edith’s problems were psychosomatic”
synonyms: (all) in the mind, psychological, irrational, stress-related, stress-induced, subjective, subconscious, unconscious
“psychosomatic illnesses can produce very real physical symptoms”
relating to the interaction of mind and body.

Tiffany Newsome
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Tiffany Newsome

Don’t eat tide pods 🙁

Kelli Wallen
Member

Thank you for the lesson!!!! You are both awesome…I take back my blahblahblah…lol…I am getting so much better at listening!

Charlene Mozee Harris
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Charlene Mozee Harris

Thank you for the enlightment!

Laurie Lankins Farley
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Loved this topic ! Great live <3

Angela Brogno
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Angela Brogno

Very beautiful im not good at loving my self since a child i always bees doing something taking very little care for my self think to much of the past

Sue Smith
Member

Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!

True spirituality involves absolute truth! When you meet with truth it changes you, makes a difference in you! Truly spiritual people then share and initiate change, make a difference in other people’s lives!

For years I read only from a narrow category, but in recent years have read from a variety of sources. While reading on the law of attraction, manifesting, and intention, it helped me understand HOW faith works!

It seems to me that division of religions has hidden or watered down the whole complete picture of truth, as each religion clings to certain parts of truth, or highlights mans ideas over absolute truth.

Preconceived ideas really are roadblocks to truth sometimes. The method of “fake news” is really an old old concept, lol!

Much love to you Jenni and Bryant!
👑💖👑💖👑💖👑💖👑💖👑💖👑💖

Margo
Member

Yes, I’ve done this myself. It’s almost similar to Witchcraft, in that, when you are casting a spell you must have a strong intention to make it work. Or if I was ill, the power of healing intention has helped me recover, or I prevented the illness from getting worse. This is true and a great topic. It’s the same when you use the power of words or suggestion to someone else. Once the seed is sewn in their minds, it’s hard to dismiss. Fascinating subject! Yes, we are the placebo, and it doesn’t matter whether it’s the placebo effect or not, if it works, it works, and I’ll use it. Some people will say that it’s the placebo effect like it’s a bad thing, but if we are using the power of our minds to make us feel better, then so be it.

Tejal
Member

Thank you so much once again.

Becki McDonough
Member

This is absolutely 100% FACT! Dr. Joe Dispenza teaches and demonstrates this FACT! Thank you so much Bryant and Jenni!! 🙏💕😇
You two are the true teachers that society really needs to absorb!

Becki McDonough
Member

Needed this SO much! You guys are amazing! 💕💜😇

ces
Member

HI JENNI AND BRYANT IM CONCESA FROM THE PHILIPPINES THE REASON WHY DESPITE OF SPENDING SO MANY DOLLARS YOU DONT SELL IS BECAUSE OF YOUR LOVE TO HUMANITY PSYCHOSOMATIC MEANS INVOLVES BOTH PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SOCIAL ASPECTS OR RELATING SOCIAL CONDITIONS TO MENTAL HEALTH!!

mssjalton
Member

Once I learned (in 2002) that I was born with everything I need to be “absolutely” happy (vs relevantly happy) I can now be still in the ‘love that I AM’….. Most powerful freedom, An unshakable Joy. Namaste’ 🙏🏼

Sandy
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Sandy

Wow you have made some eye opening statements , thank you!

Rose
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Rose

Hi I have just been in hospital for a week having tests on my stomach and heart.
I have Atrial Fibralation some times but am all good at the moment.
The Specialist have put it down to stress, as at my work I have a person that has been quite horrible to me. Which has given me very bad anxiety, continuous pain in my stomach aches and pains all through my body.
I am wanting to leave my job and retire but can’t really afford to do so. Although I am on my way to turning 66.
I would really love to receive some help from you both, if you would be able to.