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Part 2. Managing Your Energy And Associations As The Gatekeeper Of Your Own Life.

Part 2. The art of selfishness and managing your energy and associations as the gatekeeper of your own life. Cultivating two-way reciprocal relationships. At Malaga Tapas & Bar

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The Art Of Selfishness And Managing Your Energy And Associations As The Gatekeeper Of Your Own Life. Cultivating two-way reciprocal relationships. At Malaga Tapas & Bar

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Jackie DeVitto Ferris
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Jackie DeVitto Ferris

Toxic people can literally create mental illness in the people they have their claws in

James Christopher Harvey
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James Christopher Harvey

Amor what you said is right

James Christopher Harvey
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James Christopher Harvey

True

Kenje Rohenz
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Kenje Rohenz

Soo true!

Lindsey Robinson
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Lindsey Robinson

That’s right I know personally from experiences I am still dealing with. I lost my parents at an early age but honestly those tragedies were not as difficult as dealing with the live people that call themselves “family” they have tried so hard to destroy me but I haven’t let them but I feel so wore down and tired and their toxicity is just unimaginable and they are just hateful nasty beings!!!

Michele Canton
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Michele Canton

Wow thank you for sharing this.This is what I needed to see in words from the Universe.So I know now I am moving.THANK YOU

QueenieGladys M.Thelmo
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QueenieGladys M.Thelmo

I have experienced that and unconsciously, we absorb their negative vibes. I felt drained mentally and emotionally by the end of the day. I’ve decided not to be a sponge anymore. Life is too beautiful to waste on toxic people. 🙂

Heather Williams
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Heather Williams

Debbie mine are.. No wonder I feel like hell

Tamara Erika Melendres
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Tamara Erika Melendres

Perfect phrase !!! Im stealing it

Sherrida Mackay
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Sherrida Mackay

Oh Tess is there anyone you can talk to . Even anonymously

Sonia Zocchi-Dommann
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Sonia Zocchi-Dommann

That is 100% true.

Alessandra Tess
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Alessandra Tess

I experienced that today. My 46 year old son assaulted me.

Debbie Quinn
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Debbie Quinn

Imagine having parents with severe Narcissistic Personality Disorder and somehow remaining normal, optimistic, happy & loving life.

Deb Tucker
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Deb Tucker

Yes they most definitely can. They can actually make you think that there is nothing wrong with them. That everything that is going on is either your fault or your imagination.

Apreciada Alma
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Apreciada Alma

Drive you crazy drive you to drink

Heather Williams
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Heather Williams

Yes.. But it’s always been portrayed as my issue, fed up no more

Durjan Singh Sodha
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Durjan Singh Sodha

definitely

Jan Rateb
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Jan Rateb

I am totally agree with you.. They are like vampires; absorbs energy

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

Definitely

Wendy Decker Newland
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Wendy Decker Newland

I love how you said this!!!

Ann Ivy
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Ann Ivy

Wow! You hit the nail on the head! Spot on 👍🏻👍🏻

Jackie DeVitto Ferris
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Jackie DeVitto Ferris

I had to seperate and go through a period of isolation to find my inner balance again. It can be lonely but the tranquil calm will be your reward. Don’t hesitate. Really toxic people can get you so sick

Jan Rateb
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Jan Rateb

Actually Jackie DeVitto Ferris I am a Gemini 🙂 so I don’t feel never lonely ;p

Jan Rateb
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Jan Rateb

I really begin to recognize myself and understand what I really want not what I have to do to make everyone happy

Susanne Mohajerin
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Susanne Mohajerin

Amen to that- however, it’s hard to detoxify when you’ve gotten them out of your life, yet get to see them or have an unfinished business with them! How can u detox ur life when in fact they are in way, still there! Ugh

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

You start to comfortable in your self and there is no room for unecessary toxicity

Jackie DeVitto Ferris
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Jackie DeVitto Ferris

It’s lonely Huh Jan

Jan Rateb
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Jan Rateb

I am in the same position, me,myself, and I… No room for toxic people.

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

Yes I do..it helps even if they don’t like the tables turned

Susanne Mohajerin
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Susanne Mohajerin

Going through it now….

Amethyst Feeza
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Amethyst Feeza

Just a thought

Amethyst Feeza
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Amethyst Feeza

If worse comes to worst, manipulate them positively like how they manipulate us negatively?

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

Same here…it’s refreshing to love ourselves for a change

Jeffery Thorn
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Jeffery Thorn

It takes courage to be able to burn bridges to keep some of those that can’t stop looking at your past. We are our obligated to our self to guard self from anything we find standing in the way of our focus on our dreams and vision for what our desired out come for the life and accomplishments we seek to do in life and stand firm in our belief in our self.

LEi LaNi Gabriel
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LEi LaNi Gabriel

Indeed i need Courage to burn that bridge

Grace Ventura
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Grace Ventura

Narrsistic people are toxic

Grace Ventura
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Grace Ventura

You are not alone Paulette Noelle Philp 💓

Paulette Noelle Philp
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Paulette Noelle Philp

Had a learning experience, Hope never to go that route again. Still detoxing, regaining my strength. 😇

Grace Ventura
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Grace Ventura

Save YourSelf 🙏🏼💓🙏🏼
or they will bring you down with them unfortunately 🙁

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

You are better off banging your head into a wall than trying to make people change

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez
Grace Ventura
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Grace Ventura

Venom 🙁

Sunshine J Cortez
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Sunshine J Cortez

Poisonous

Donna Dawson Mckinnon
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Donna Dawson Mckinnon

Yup that is right ! I know what u meant.

Lisa Summers
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Lisa Summers

Oprah said they peck you like a duck. All those little jabs just peck, peck, peck until they destroy you.

Gabriela Martinyuk
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Gabriela Martinyuk

Not destroyed. No way- he’s destroying himself

Gabriela Martinyuk
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Gabriela Martinyuk

My ex husband!!!!!!!!

Pamela Stiehler Byrd
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Pamela Stiehler Byrd

Be yourself and the world will adjust

Cleora Piper Gillespie-Weger
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Cleora Piper Gillespie-Weger

I like this!👑

VK Dimple
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VK Dimple

I’m going through a divorce after trying for 15 years… It was not an easy decision to make… But I’m trying to fight it… I hope you help me… To stay on track…. I’m a fighter not a victim…

Candelario Kat
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Candelario Kat

Time heals

Roxanne Casura
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Roxanne Casura

Ull get trough it, Jesus is just a pray away

Jason Smyth
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Jason Smyth

It’s almost like people get jealous of your success and happiness, so they want to drag you down in their misery to make themselves feel better.

Mo Poppins
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Mo Poppins

This is such an important point to share, because it’s not obvious to anyone who feels nothing but joy for others when good things happen to them.

I couldn’t understand why they were some people being mean to me, when I was always friendly and wanting to be a positive presence in their lives. I mentioned these occurrences to a handful of random people throughout the years, and they always came back with the same response: They’re jealous and threatened by you.

NEVER would’ve guessed it on my own. They have just as much freedom to work hard on themselves, but instead, they prefer to gossip and slander. Sometimes, you can do ALL the right things, and people will hate you, anyway–so yay for us who don’t give a sh*t. 🙂

Cindy Anelante
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Cindy Anelante

Emotional vampires need to be taken out of our lives!!

Samantha Spillane
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Samantha Spillane

The most toxic person in your life can be yourself.

Julian Weatherby
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Julian Weatherby

In order to really take the responsibility to even say and embrace this statement requires a huge dose of complete honesty.

Kim Gross
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Kim Gross

So dam true

Michele Canton
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Michele Canton

Yes yes I am working on that..Because I know I am not the in my spirit or soul it just what I chose to fit in with the life I chose in the past.I no longer agree to this in me or around me.

Percy Soriano
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Percy Soriano

So drained that and refilled it into new one ..and you feel alive and God hands … amen..!!

Alena Raine
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Alena Raine

Grateful for the Refill of Positivity!!!

Rocio Tamez
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Rocio Tamez

I Work with rich people a lot, many of them are so empty inside…

Mientjie Fritz
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Mientjie Fritz

Maybe they are continuously crossing your path with good reason as what you are experiencing might be your own emptiness Girl I ecperience most of them as peaceful as that is what I aklow into my life Try it

Christina George
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Christina George

Tell me about some what the advice for free my gifts i went to school for energy is earned not given can’t give out like candy. I’m energy healer and also give advice in other things.

Mo Poppins
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Mo Poppins

“Some people are so poor, all they have is money.”

I’ve worked with people in Beverly Hills, Bel Air, and Newport Beach (the Beverly Hills of OC), and I’ve never been admirous or envious of people for being wealthy (lucky me that all of my interests are either cheap or free!), but yes it’s true…they’re very empty inside, and they lack the self-awareness or incentive to work on themselves to do anything about it. You can even feel the emptiness in the air, as you drive through rich neighborhoods–sad, empty energy.

Rocio Tamez
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Rocio Tamez

I teach them How to sing opera! And yes, some of them are like that

Joyce Bugg
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Joyce Bugg

Wow! I feel for you

Kathleen Bristol Connolly
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Kathleen Bristol Connolly

There is is huge difference between nurturing yourself and being selfish. It took me a long time to learn to discern the difference.

Helene Kutz
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Helene Kutz

It has been hurting my health to not know how to set my boundaries with the people that are toxic to me. I need balance!

Kathleen Bristol Connolly
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Kathleen Bristol Connolly

Your wisdom comes from the pain of living in dysfunction. I can relate. Everything you say is so on spot

Larry Schmidt
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Larry Schmidt

there is an abundance of unlimited joy for all of us to have and share!

Caren Young Oakley
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Caren Young Oakley

If you love what you do- you’re the richest person in the world …

Wendy Finfera
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Wendy Finfera

“In a society that profits from self-doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act.” ❤

Carolyn Sue Burns-Frazier
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Carolyn Sue Burns-Frazier

And one that is Revered!!

Kim Gross
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Kim Gross

Great perspective

Grace Ventura
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Grace Ventura

Spiritual is a peaceful wellness in knowing who you are!

Ruthena Hensley
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Ruthena Hensley

I am awesome and it took me a long time to realize that. I am very blessed to be where I am at in my life.

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