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Do you have this one very important attribute you need to build the life you want?

A missing ingredient that every creative dreamer needs to make it all real.

Watch the video above for an important missing ingredient for building the life you want.

If you want more from life β€” start by counting your blessings instead of counting your losses, deficits and wants. Impatience, resentment, jealousy and endless “want” are not creative attractors and have no value. These feelings block your opportunities. From time to time, everyone experiences these thoughts, but you must learn to move through them constructively. When negative feelings move upon you, reflect, and recognize the danger of feeding those feelings and keeping them alive. Let them take their course and see to it that they burn-out like a campfire in a dry forest; watching them carefully, without adding further fuel to their fire with undue worry.

Excessive want is a form of desperation and a declaration of lack.

Impatience, resentment and jealousy are obvious negative emotions that are more easily understood as toxic. However, the concept of want is more complicated and confusing. If your feelings of “wanting” are not disruptive to your inner-tranquility then they are likely healthy. However, excessive want is a form of desperation and a declaration of lack. Any aggressive lust lacks balance and is unwholesome and obstructive.

Balance in life is the key to everything.

Balance in life is the key to everything. You need to focus on more than just your wants. Everyone has wants, but you have to be smart to get what you want. It can be counterintuitive and difficult to understand that in order to get anything, you must offer your value first β€” you must give. You must also create a space of sanity and security within yourself for your value and strategies to take root and grow. That space of sanity is called contentment and gratitude.

Be calm and patient with your desires.

You are likely the greatest obstacle to achieving your own dreams. Get out of your own way. Learn to exist gracefully and peacefully with yourself. Only inner-mastery can bring outer-mastery. Start deep within yourself and slowly build outward toward your goal. Be calm and patient with your desires. Reject the common false beliefs that you don’t have much time or you will never have another opportunity. Be steady, gentle, calm, centered, focused, patient and grateful. Focus on your truthful passion, even if that passion “seems” to have no chance of bringing the worldly rewards you presently believe you want. Your wants will evolve as you grow in understanding and spiritual maturity.

Be prepared to prove your passion with patience and longsuffering…

Be prepared to prove your passion with patience and longsuffering, or if you are wise, with long-joying. Remember that any desire is tested; the greater the desire, the greater the tests. Take action, but without attachment to any outcome. Work only as a truthful expression of your passion and not just to get.

Please leave comments while watching the show, and share your experiences and ideas so others may benefit from your wisdom as well.

Bryant McGill

Bryant McGill is a human potential thought leader, international bestselling author, activist, and social entrepreneur.

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Thomas Sutherland

I have been following your discussions and SR for a couple months and found that I have changed my attitudes and demeanor. I am not the old man that I used to be, full of anger,anxiety, negativity and worries and grief. Everyday seems to be getting better.I have goals again. I have rid myself of worry and stress including the people who created it. I only wanted to tell you that I thank you and Jenni for giving me a fabulous fresh start on my retirement years. God Bless You Both and keep up the great work.

Uchenna Ilo
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One of the best messages ever delivered. Spoke directly to my soul. Described my life in detail.

Wong Lok
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After listening the second time, I tried to understand the concepts of self-acceptance and try to remember the reminder of knowing that when the trajectory is going up, things will be great. Even though there are some small ups and downs in life. πŸ™‚ and knowing that trajectory can help me to let go of things that would cost my inner peace and peace of mind. We should not be trapped in local maxima and local minima of life, and help ourselves to understand the bigger picture with awareness and feel the security and maintain good friendship with the people that matter to each other. Patience is essential to inner peace, without patience, the negative emotion would block my opportunities of good friendships. πŸ™‚

JOHN MCDOUGALL
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JOHN MCDOUGALL

Bryant, that was a very interesting documentary you gave there whilst sitting in the car but I noticed the steering wheel was on the right hand side which gave me the impression that you were no longer in America but in another country! If you don’t mind my asking, what country were you speaking from?
Kind Regards…………….John

Sara
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Sara

Great Article good issue. πŸ˜€

Lawney
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Great broadcast!

Vasudevan Bhattathir
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I love this video and article very much. I had times in my life when at sometimes in deep sadness. but I have great Faith in God and His doings and i was able to get out of it our mind is responsible for all sufferings
This article and video gives correct direction whens one’s life in a turning point I am of the opinion that reading of this article and seeing and hearing the talk will give an insight to all

Laurie Lankins Farley
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You two just make me smile! 😘

shakabonbon
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I’m not a well person so it’s physically hard for me to get from one day to another and one thought to another…. depression and physical pain is wearing me down a consttbattle as well as sleep deprivation

Margo
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Yes, i think i lack confidence in myself at times. I dont have much money to buy my way out of this eternal mess im in. I dont ferl i have that extra zing anymore

Pamela Leigh
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As you stated Bryant, along these lines: “Spiritual leaders not giving you the full picture”. I’ve sensed, seen and said this very thing for a long time. Thank you Bryant and Jenni for “Being”. Shared energy here. Compassion Heart to heart.

Lissa Hinshaw
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I really enjoyed this broadcast. Listening to it for a second time. <3 πŸ™‚

Angeliki Anastasia
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Manifestation, dazzling, unreal, incredible, addictive!!! When One reaches a high level of day dream, everything is sooo peaceful, magical, lovely, that you want to stay forever and for always and never return to this soooo β€œ logical world”!! Now here comes the balance that Queen Jenni and King Bryant aforementioned!!! They know Everything!!! They are Magical!!! An ancient Greek quote written on the Temple of Apollon (god of light and music) sais! β€œΞœΞ·Ξ΄Ξ­Ξ½ Άγαν» which means Nothing excessive! One of the great philosophers Kleovoulos said! β€œΞ Ξ±Ξ½ μέτρον άριστον which means Everything in balance is perfection! Queen Jenni and King Bryant are the modern great Philosophers!!!β€οΈπŸ†πŸ₯‡πŸ†πŸ₯‡πŸ†πŸ₯‡β€οΈπŸ™πŸŒΉβ­οΈπŸ¦‹πŸ’•πŸŒˆπŸ‘‘πŸ‘‘πŸ‘‘πŸ‘‘πŸ‘‘πŸŒΊπŸŒ™πŸ¦„πŸ¦„πŸ¦„πŸ¦„

Melissa Rose Rothschild
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Love this broadcast !
Dream BIG … this is our special life!
💓💓💓

Sue Smith
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πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘‘πŸ’–
Thank you!

chell
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absolutely gutted there is no sound on your video would have loved to hear what you guys were talking of thank you so much for all you both do i found this article very interesting as sometimes on the rare occasion ill slip into bad habits of thinking enough though i fully am ware i do it helps to drag myself back up again feel changed feel lest empty more fuller each and everyday you guys are amazing blessing to this world xx

Robina fazal
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Thanks!Sir Bryant and Mam Jenni..for really an amazing,useful…in life….inspiring a encouraging article
..and also watched your nice video…💖👑💐To live life is to live a life with passions,desires,Stablitiy ,harmony..Love,Self confidence.. eagerness…zeal and zest.. for it one have to have trust on oneown Self…Should have the courage to take own desicion.. to carry on life routines with happiness..vigour and enthusiasm..We are not 1oo percent satisfy with wht we are doing but we Should do our best wht we aim for..wht we like to do..wht we feel to do..never Always results totally in favour.. but we have to do our best..and be patient and hope ful.. If you feel weak at doing something’s.. that weak points can be your success Signal….Go,move forward…look ahead..wht is over leave it..get strength with by loving your Soul.. by loving your passions and desires..There is not a word impossible.. Trust in God Almighty.. Use your powers,energies..capabilities..abilities.. energies for positive,good causes your health increases your mind expands…you get a healthy mind and body.. and your inner continuesly thrive for more work…more achievements.. more happiness..joy..pleasure..more motivations.. more ready to get the best out of life…Enjoy a life of health and pleasure..and be a Source of love,care and compassion for all….Life is wht you make out of it…You have to seek for goodness and beauty…it can never be achieved unless you work hard for it. Live a healthy happy life..and make life healthy and happy for others….💖👑👍👍👍👍👍

Elena
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Elena

My son keeps pursuing a woman who is nice one day and mean for a long time and says horrible derogatory things to him. How can I advise him. He is a great guy with many friends.

Deb
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Deb

That is allowing her to be abusive to him. He needs to accept he is not with the right person. He will never change her she has to choose to do so on her own. She could have serious mental issues and should be in counseling. Your son needs to be more confident that he deserves much better.

Lalie Nieto
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Hello Bryant and Jenni💕 I’m re-typing my comments again too bad they got deleted. I was almost done.🤔
I was at the beach yesterday when I saw the broadcast about Manifestation. I watched a portion of it but my cell bat died. I love the message of this broadcast so much that I took down notes. Sharing 💕
– Nothing will cause you to lose your faith than impatience; wonderful things are worth the wait; you need the patience of 10 saints; Faith should be intact – your timeline is not God’s timeline; wait for universal timeline so that destiny will be delivered to you
– We need to look at our trajectory; our trajectory should be in proper alignment; know where it’s heading(carry on with what you love; do what you’re meant to do ) only you know where you’re heading
– Dream big since same amount of struggle/ wrong suffering, burdens, doubts and judgements; suffer for something bigger; suffer for what is true to you, for what you’re born to do; what you know deep in your bones you’re meant to do; do the things you’re called to do
– We are always defeated from within or a Victor within
– live life with no regrets; this is your precious chance, your sweet precious life

I have the patience not only of 10 but 20 saints otherwise, I would have left a long time ago. I held on due to abandonment issues( at the beginning) but it came to a point wherein I felt I was already strong enough to stand on my own. But just the same, I held on not only for my love for my page but for reasons I can’t explain – there was this strong feeling which urged me to stay. I sometimes ask myself if it’s worth it. Sometimes i say to myself that I should have loved and respected myself more. But on the ither hand, I’m thankful that I did hang on. Why?Because the whole experience taught me valuable lessons about myself, others and life which I wouldn’t have learned if I left. Also, the roller coaster of emotions I felt gave me the inspiration to write which is a gift/blessing by itself. I can feel it my bones that I am called to do this. The universe gave me the sign I was asking to continue writing not only as a hobby but to be able to help others.
I am now confident enough to explore, to wander and to seek new adventures. I dont want togive up on you but it seems things are not working out. I wont abandon my page though. Yes surrender to the universe. Just go with the flow. See what happens. ❤🦋

Khalida wild
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❤️❤️❤️

Ruth E Barnhart
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Ruth E Barnhart

Yes, I have positive thing ong with an attitude of
gratitude. I live a happy and fulfilled live thanks to my friends from SIMPLEREMINDERS. I love most people and love to make new friends all the time. Life is a journey to be enjoyed and you should help others whenever you can. Be happy no one knows the length of their life. Be blessed my friends. ruth e

Diane Greve
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Ruth I love your attitude and outlook on life.. What you said was so inspiring to me. I have been following Simpleminders for a lot time and they always make my days so much brighter. I agree we should always take the time to help others when we can, it always makes me feel so good. Diane

Tiffany Newsome
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Tiffany Newsome

Great Article!

CraigFisher
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I heard you guys say the words in advance a little bit ago and it made me think about what I do alot of times and it is lolol I’m listening to y’all as I’m writing lol thats funny…attention span of a gold fish. Is it prep work? I walk alot in nature and I like to mow out my path to make it a easier and more enjoyable walk. Anything we can do for ourselves ahead of time increases our ability to manifest. You think?

Laxmi Ghimire
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Laxmi Ghimire

I am Laxmi From Nepal πŸ‡³πŸ‡΅

Laxmi Ghimire
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Laxmi Ghimire

Hello! Greetings of the day! ☺️
My name is Laxmi from Nepal πŸ‡³πŸ‡΅ πŸ˜€

corona
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corona

it’s Corona from Illinois

PARAS
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PARAS

Nice Mr.and Mrs.Bryant and Jenny McGill….I loved the points of your article☺.

Christina jensen
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Christina jensen

Hello my name Christina jensen
I live Minnesota

Andrea
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Andrea

Amen

Andrea
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Andrea

Wellness

Andrea
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Andrea

Unconditional LOVE

Theatriise2001
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Thea From Fort Worth, Tx. Maintaining a positive state of mind