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Many of our problems come down to one singular issue — relationships. There are misunderstandings, miscommunication, and just generally taking others for granted. Even with the best of intentions, we sometimes fail to give our loved ones, friends, co-workers,...
Oh I’m so guilty of some of these … sometimes I talk awkwardly in silence like it’s a bad thing … some of that stems from short term memory , get it out before you forget . Sometimes it’s easier to text but if you want the true meaning to get across a phone call is much better! I’m guilty of that.. if it’s not a close friend or family member . Privacy and personal space varies from person to person and struggling that balance can be nerve -racking to say the least but something I’m working on . Very good article and great points to work on … there are times when busy that we withdraw and that’s when self care kicks in for me , like working on artistic arts and crafts as an outlet for creativity . Time put into anything , be it relationship , hobby , dream or goal …is essential and focused on the importance first.
I see many issues in my life that need my attention … it’s just balancing them I find taxing and exhausting . This article has been very helpful making me aware of the 5 steps .
Girl! Add being to hard on yourself to your list. Lol! I know YOU! I think that you are warm & kind & remarkable. You are a great listener. You have empathy & worry others feel uncomfortable, so you make small talk. So sweet. You are on such a beautiful deserving journey of self care. You are always improving & in your gut, you are a better version of YOU every day. It's so cool. Celebrate it! Love you friend!
Thank you Jo for the kind words , your pretty awesome too you know! 😄And I’ll try to be easier on myself… promise!
Love this x100. Thank you Dr. Richardson.
You get what you give & if you're NOT getting?? START GIVING. The last few years i went from lack to abundance by serving & lifting others in love. This article is so true. Most people are truly more fascinating & interesting than we realize, as well. So listening with both ears also is a gift to ourselves. Great article! #liftAsisterUP
Really enjoyed reading your advice…
Beautifully written and directly to the point.
Yes it is so easy to say one has more serious problems…We never know what another person is experiencing until they tell us and we listen.
It is important to realize if someone needs you to listen to them..You need to give them your undivided attention.
It so sad when you see someone walk away with that heavy burden in their hearts.
It is a simple act of kindness to take the time to listen. Take a few minutes of your time to call and see how they are doing…
It will be good for them as well as you…
This article is very rich in keeping up human relations and how to develop the same. .unless we are ready to open up yourself it is not possible to establish a relation. some times silence is also a way of communication.that too in between conversations.as said the body language and words used are also very much counts
this is a very informative write up. thank you
Miss Beautiful Amanda, congratulations for All Your Incredible Wisdom that Wakes up the Lost ❤️ 💕 💗 love between Family and Friends!!! Yeeeesssss I totally agree that if One starts pouring his heart out, Of course you never interrupt, just like a phychologist, he must listen in order to find the root of the problem and destroy it!!! Thank you 🙏 soooo much for Your Very Therapeutic Glory!!!!🏆🏆🏆🏆❤️❤️❤️❤️🥇🥇🥇🥇🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thanks.. Doc.Amanda 💖💐for an inspiring and nice article…yeah,it's our patience..love,respect..care for others to be in more positive relationships with family ,friends co.workers…workers..e.t.c.to lead our lives with happiness….and vigour.. we do need good and positive responses..we have to be cooperstive,with persistence and tolerance at times..Their never happy going moments and times always..if we need good healthy support we also have to let others comfortable too…If we only think of our own benefits…and use others for our comfort and ease and ignore the discomforty we cause at times to others…we should not forget.. the one's who give advantages to us..they will in response cause trouble and irritating situations and behaviours to us as much they get the chances….we Should have big soft hearts.. Let others be in ease and comfort..we should realise their problems..weaknesses…illnesses…hard times they may be facing..that's why their behaviours at times..not tolerable and acceptable for us..we get depressed at times and get upset…and hurt them or let them realize they are not doing right…we mold them according to be good to us or let us comfortable.. but that's temporary phase for them as who are meant to deal you will goodness.. but they have their own advantages and purposes to use you as a chase game…although they love care and respect you….but they want your sacrifise for their own good…and life..Will never be truly happy to see you in full strength achieve your goals and dreams…So you have to deal such people such relations with love care and good attitudes and behaviours one day sooner or later they will understand they can't stop your flow to be yourself your true self..to gain your desired life..your patience and nice attitudes and love care…mold them as Angels of love and respect for you…and they starts walking with you….with zeal and zest to make your ways easy to be true and loving to you…to gain your powers more and to be a useful person in life….So,be a good example for others and don't expect from others to let you relaxxx…love care and respect are the three motives of life that can make all nice and humble and loving and caring…contribute your good intentions ..hard works true motivation for peace and love…all turn into your good…as God Almighty helps those who help themselves..Miracles happen for those who don't sit down and worry.. rather than that be brave ..pain resisting..be pain your help ..hard workers..believe in love..care and respect…nothing is impossible…God bless the Souls with love ,peace and ease…Amen
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