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I Went Rock Climbing and Quit My Job the Next Day

I am the author of my story. I am the creator of my dreams. I choose whether to stay or go and take risks.

I went rock climbing for the first time and quit my JOB the next day.

It is true, the title really tells the whole story. Let me take you back to the year 2000, way back haha. I was in the middle of a divorce and was not happy at work anymore. You could say that life threw me some lemons that year but I was on a mission, a mission to find my happiness. I searched for it high and low and wasn’t able to really find it.

I got a call from my brother who was probably the most adventurous person I have ever met.

He asked me to take a day off with him the following week as he would be in town and we could go do something in nature, like hike or rock climb. Rock climbing was not something I have ever done before. I was a nature girl for sure, I have been on hundreds of hikes and love the outdoors, but rock climbing was a little extreme for my taste. BUT…

I decided to take the day off and we ventured out in the woods to find some big rocks to climb.

I was talking about all my woes on the way out to the rock, my divorce, my dating life or lack thereof, my job and how everything changed and the funk I had been in for quite some time. My brother just listened to me and gave some great brotherly advice but mainly focused his conversation on what we were about to do once we got found the right rock.

So there it was, staring in front of me. A HUGE rock the size of the empire state building. Well at least to me it seemed that way. I was super nervous and was ready to back out at any minute now.

My brother started to prep the ropes and tied me up to them. He started talking to me about what to do first and how to concentrate on each step up along the way. He promised that he had me me secured in the harness and I was really supported by more ropes than normal as he didn’t want anything to happen to me.


I decided to stop letting my mind chatter with all the nonsense going on in my life and took the first step up onto the rock. He talked me through it and pretty soon I was half way up the rock. Each step seemed to get a little easier until I was getting some major distance between me and the ground. He kept telling me not to look down.

I couldn’t help it. I had to look down and then I was really scared. I finally reached the top and I heard my brother call out to me… “Now let go of the rope”. I was in total shock. NO WAY. WHY would I EVER do such a thing? I thought to myself. Ok. I actually yelled that out loud. He heard me.

“Tania, Let go of the rope. I’ve got you.”

I was breathing very fast at this point and decided to let go of the rope, but with only one hand. He laughed a minute and then said, NO the other hand too. So I grabbed the rope with the hand I just released and switched hands… now the other hand was free.

He encouraged me again and said, Tania, trust in the rope and let go.

I finally let go with BOTH HANDS. I thought I was NUTS, but I trusted my brother who had been rock climbing and leading adventure hikes for a lot of years now. I leaned back and just hung there. WOW I thought, what an accomplishment. I am safe. I am secure and look what I just did.

Goosebumps covered my body and my adrenaline was intense but I felt AMAZING, like I could do anything now that I have done this.

He talked me through coming back down and once I got to the ground I gave him a big hug. I thanked him for helping me overcome that fear and asked him how high that rock was. He said,… Oh probably only 25 to 30 feet. That was it? It felt like 100 feet.

As we walked back to where our car was parked, I started to shift my thinking and realized that I really can do anything I set my mind to. I really can live life on my terms. I really can take care of myself. I need to TRUST and LET GO of all the mind chatter and negativity. 


SO, you won’t believe what I did next and yes this is a true story.

My boss at work had changed for the worse when he got promoted. Before, when he was fun to work for, he had an open door policy and you could stop in anytime. Now that he was a hotshot Director, he had you schedule time with his admin to meet with him. So, the next day, I went in to work at 6am and collected all my belongings and put them in my car.

I typed up a resignation note stating that I would be resigning that very day. I called his admin as soon as she was in the office and scheduled a 15 min appointment as early as I could get it.

I went into his office, told him I was grateful for the opportunity but that it was important for me to leave and move on to my next adventure. He was SHOCKED as I was in charge of training and helped build that campus, and then was angry. He wanted to know if I was going to a competitor. Of course, I didn’t have any back up plans (normally you have a place to go before you put in your notice). I said I wasn’t and he didn’t believe me. Then I said that I just had a rough year and I need time to figure out what I want out of life.

So… I said my goodbyes to all my staff and the employees I trained and left.

Now, while I don’t always think this is the best way to leave, most of the time I gave two weeks’ notice and had another gig lined up… at this time in my life, it was my BEST CHOICE EVER.

I took the next several months to really figure out what I wanted to do and I am so happy I did. I meditated, I wrote, I worked with some coaches and I figured out my next step and it was so much better than my previous one.

All of this from a simple day of rock climbing?

Well, there is a quote that I have learned over the years from one of my favorite mentors who recently passed away…

“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” — Dr. Wayne Dyer

I think that the rock climbing was a PARADIGM SHIFT for me. I realized in that moment of accomplishment that I did not have to SETTLE for mediocre and I didn’t have to continue living in a negative environment. AND the best part I realized was…

I am the author of my story. I am the creator of my dreams. I choose whether to stay or go and take risks.

So, that is how I choose to live my life. I choose ME and I choose health and I choose happiness.

The next time someone offers an adventure to get you out of your doldrums… I think you should say YES.

May you live your life to its fullest!

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Tania Fields-Bedford

Tania Fields-Bedford has extensive experience in the field of Leadership Development, Management, Sales Training and Coaching.

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Andrew Love

My name is Andrew. I am 69 years old. I had a conversion experience in 2016. After living an ” Amoral ” life for over 40 years due to a Bi Polar disorder and a chronic gambling addiction, through the Grace of Divine Mercy i was cured. I was EMOTIONALLY BLIND and a CRIPPLE. I was now FREE, and able to choose right from wrong.
I was able to Love myself more, accept my weaknesses and failings and consequently became less judgemental and more accepting of others.
This change of lifestyle meant developing a closer relationship with a Loving and Merciful God..I was praying more… meditating… reading the bible….
Attending mass regularly…. receiving communion and going to confession.
UNFORTUNATELY MY WIFE OF 45 YEARS DID NOT QUITE LIKE MY NEW LIFESTYLE. SHE DID NOT BELIEVE IN ” God ”
Although I had stopped gambling for quite a while now and was managing my Bi Polar mood swings fairly well, our relationship was not improving.
THE DECISION TO LEAVE AFTER 45 YEARS OF MARRIAGE.
On 14th December 2017, I decided to leave the family home. It was the 1st time in 45 years that I was not having the best of French Champagne and seafood for Christmas. I did miss the company of my daughter, son and granddaughter.
The paradox was that I spent one of my best Christmas lunch with a group of underprivileged people in a hall in Ipswich.
GOOD HEALTH AND FREEDOM CAN BRING TRUE JOY AND HAPPINESS.
It is exactly 18 weeks since I took the DECISION to walk away from my long standing marriage of 45 years. I must say that i have met more people, made more friends, achieved more because of the basic fact that I love God, love self and love neighbour.
I pray everyday that my wife will forgive me one day for all my mistakes. And that she will find inner peace and happiness.

Julia Kinandu
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Nice article Tania. Thanks for sharing your inspiring message with the world.
You confronted the fears head-on and your success today is because you chose YOU over all. Wish you all happiness. 😍🤗

Robina fazal
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Thanks!Tania dear for a beautiful…inspiring article.
Yeah to lead a happy and healthy life you have make a choice to lead life of purpose and of yours choice.
.Sometimes it’s really necessary to have full confidence ..Will power..Soul love to çreat our own beautiful world.. to grow more..to learn more.. to rely on our own instincts and guts to live life of our passions ,desires and achieve our goals.. that make us more a happy..relaxed and eager ,enthusiastic person to live a life of our dreams and sooth all around us with peace ..ease and love….💖💐💫

Marita
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Marita

An amazing chance. I would not have Been able yo face such a chance. I’m hook to my family. My disable mother depends on me full time . Congratulation pm your success. Marita from Argentina

Margaret Gilmore
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Margaret Gilmore

I remember I had to make a decision once about a job that I was doing. I didn’t want to quit because I knew that I needed that job.I worked for as long as I could stand it, one day I came home. and I realized that I had to quit. And so I did. It was the best thing I had ever done. I was truly happy with my decision to quit. I found the perfect job to replace that one.

Jennifer Turner
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Jennifer Turner

I AM changing my life, as we speak! I’m stepping out of the old cookie cutter routine a life filled with expectations into a different way of being. At 46, I AM starting over, seeking what fills me. I’m now anxious to discover all that I can do & who I can be.
#doinitbetter

Sandra
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Sandra

We have to follow our dreams, with wisdom as our guide, but we only have 1 life to live here, so we need to be happy.

Nancy E Schwab
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Nancy E Schwab

This is truly amazing! Very brave! Thank you for sharing your story! But that is what Wayne Dyer teaches! Brings me to my mantra every day.
I Am
I Can
I Will
Again thank you!N

chell
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wow amazing to read your journey thank you so much for sharing you choose fear in your hand to your successes very heart felt and a beautiful story to share to helps to guide others bless you

VashtiFrederick
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I wish I could do that but if I did that today or tomorrow I would end up completely homeless with nothing and that’s thinking positive because you still have to have avenues that you can touch pass that you can walk through that will get you to the next step

Jean Bedford
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Jean Bedford

Wow what a great experience & finding your way in life. You should be so proud.

Rosemary
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Rosemary

I also went through a very tough year in 2017. I moved 350 miles away from my home to Burns Oregon. It was the boldezt move I have ever made. My divorce is over..final ..my daughter grew up got a job and is independant. Im now moving back to my home town just to live and. Be Happy. I did some growing too. Thanks. For the words of wisdom. You are Amazing.

Vasudevan Bhattathir
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This article is very much inspiring ,specially for those who are facing a turning point in life . it is your brother who has shown the way people are always afraid of facing the unknown. but those who have courage and guidance can handle any situation . this shows how the infinite power within us can be explored but we have take first step
I believe that the brother who came to you and taking you to rock climbing is is God sent when your are in need the incidents that followed and opening up a new way of taking life is a Divine method of leading you to a new way of thinking and opening of one more door of your mind it means you are blessed very few have the courage and opportunity to accomplish something in life
let your experience may be an eye opener for lot others . thank you for this article

Lalie Nieto
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Hello Tania
Thank you for sharing this very inspiring article on your epic adventure and self discovery.
I am on my 3rd day of “nature walks” taking advantage of the 10 day forecast of sunny weather. I picked a quiet spot right in front of the lake in the forest area and updated my journal. I am so excited for my goals/dreams which I wrote down hoping to accomplish them within one year. I’m trying to ignore the negative voice/chatter otherwise they won’t come into fruition. I just asked for a YES sign from the universe and I got it yesterday😄. I’m just looking forward to happy days ahead of me. No more tears and regrets just lots of smiles and positivity. I just have to be patient, trust my journey and be open and grateful to new adventures, blessings and support i am getting from the universe.
Thank you so much Bryant and Jenni😍
Happy weekend🦋

Rose Gerlinsky
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I have completely changed my life ,right now things are finally getting much better for me ,before this it was very very difficult .with money problems and all .it not funny but when you are in a situation like that none of your friends want to really help you at all . I went got other help things are looking up like big big time..

Suzan Muhialdeen
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Suzan Muhialdeen

Awesome article i really enjoyed to read it ,because it is similar a little bit to my case , sometimes changing looks difficult and not everyone’s dear to make a change, for example quite a job or any kind of changing looks scary, because it gives people feels of unsafe, but it is necessary sometimes and shift the person life to the better ,i think the best thing that you be the authuor of your life story and the director of your dreams ,let go anything that takes your peace of mind , and( all is well that ends well ).

Tiffany Newsome
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Tiffany Newsome

This story kind of reminds me of the 1994 Film Forrest Gump played by Actor Tom Hanks, when he went on a cross country marathon and refused to live a life confined and controlled. He went continued to defy everything that was against him and was able to beat the odds. Very encouraging indeed!

Heidi Williams
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Heidi Williams

Very Inspirational Thank you Tania Working through Bumps in my life and trying to Work through them as a Single Divorced Mom of 2 kids

Janice mcgarrell
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Janice mcgarrell

But what if it not in the position financially to just follow it dreams I’d there a way round about it.

Patricia Moss
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Patricia Moss

I enjoyed this article and realized that I can do all things with the strength of God. I must face my challenges head-on and stop being so timid about venturing out in life. I need to realize I am the master of my happiness and no one else is in charge. Stop being a pushover and scared of the outcomes. Either good or bad, I must face them. I am a conqueror!

Angeliki Anastasia
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Lovely Tania your story was so uplifting, it reached the top of Mount Everest!!! I looooveee adventure!!! Since a little girl I used to swim very far in the breathtaking seas!!! When you aforementioned rock climbing, this is something I always wanted to do!! I love danger!!! When I was 42 years old I tried for the first time ice skating and of course I fell many times and still do!!! I congratulate on quitting your job!!! When a door closes it’s up to God, The Great Secret and of course ourselves to transform our lives!!! Thank for your most adventurous article!!! I Your wisdom is undeniably amazing!!!🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇⭐️⭐️⭐️❤️❤️🦋🦋🌹🌹☘️☘️🌈🌈🌺🌺🧚🏻‍♀️🧚🏻‍♀️

Tejal
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Tania thank you so much for sharing your story. I felt so connected as I am going through the same shift. I did quit my job and am going for an adventure with my friends. I quit because I know that the purpose of my life is very clear and for that I need not stay in a place just for some small securities. I am learning to let go and move ahead. Thank you to the team of Simple Reminder for all the beautiful thoughts and prayers you share with us.

Syden
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Syden

Tania thank you for sharing your story of concouring your inner fear… Trusting your capabilities really matters than what others would look or say about you… Your success will be your best achievements and accomplishments… Stay blessed, stay happy and healthy always!!

Dylene
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Dylene

Very inspiring thanks for sharing

Denise P
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Denise P

Sometimes it’s as simple as letting go and trusting yourself

Debbie Shelswell
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Debbie Shelswell

Thanks Tania, love your first quote….
It’s going up on my kitchen window, so I can read it all the time and keep inspired …

BrandyChambers
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I need a shift to happen!

Janet Stripp
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Janet Stripp

Really enjoyed reading this story of how you took back the control in your life. Well done. It’s given me a lot to think about. 😊

StaceyCurran
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Brilliant xxx