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How to stop the attacks, negativity, and hurt! Getting rid of toxic people with no guilt. Healing your wounds triggering predators and attacks. Grass that attacks! Inner wounds and inner light. How being Royal transforms your experience in life.

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Getting rid of toxic people with no guilt. Healing your wounds triggering predators and attacks. Grass that attacks! Inner wounds and inner light. How being Royal transforms your experience in life.

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How to stop the attacks, negativity, and hurt! Getting rid of toxic people with no guilt. Healing your wounds triggering predators and attacks. Grass that attacks! Inner wounds and inner light. How being Royal transforms your experience in life.

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

Rebecca Burgess, thank you for taking the time to reply and give me encouragement and support.

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

Rebecca Burgess, what if life has a way of causing drama to find its way to me and then it would seem like I’m the drama driven person with twist and and etc. This is another reason I became severely depressed and withdrew. I didn’t want to talk about events that were being forced on me to a point where I was victimized and yet, I hated acting of behaving like one so I started to withdraw from people I did not want to me looked at as a problem, drama driven person because I am not. I also started to see too much evil in this world. I later started having panick attacks when around a big crowd when I don’t have my partner with me.

This is where the possibility of being an empath causes me to put myself out there by caring too much and always helping others. I hope to find the answers soon.

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

*try to not live like….

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

Tina Benitez….I know honey, it is sooo hard to do, but sometimes, even with family you just don’t have a choice if you want to try to live a like a hostage of their negativity or hostility. You’re free(r) now to move on and be happier! Brave, babe you! Atta girl Royal sister!

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

Rebecca Burgess, I have to cut myself off with 4-5 of my siblings and I’m one of ten children and one sister from another marriage. It’s really tough for me but I have to or it’s just going to kill me. The hypocrisy is just too much for me. We we one very close….. Very, very difficult indeed!

Manjula Krishna
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Manjula Krishna

Thank you for your support.

Michelle Cooper
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Michelle Cooper

Thank you to all for your support really do appreciate it

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

Michelle Cooper….I truly pray that you will soon find the strength to take this very imperative step towards your emotional and spiritual freedom from the negativity still existing in your life….good luck my Royal sister….stay in touch….you have the support of your entire Royal family! 🙂

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

Tina Epperson….you can save yourself still….keep trying, your Royal family will be here to help….:-) 🙂

Jackie Kerr
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Jackie Kerr

I do my best to stay away from negative folks …positive all the way is the name off the game u can u will and your going to !! Happy happy 😊

Michelle Cooper
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Michelle Cooper

Thank you for letting me know what Royal means I appreciate it

Michelle Cooper
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Michelle Cooper

I would love that I’ve had alot people in my life that were very negative people I’ve just got one more I know it will hurt but better for me to do so in the future

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

Claudia La Grippe. I had a “friend” like that many years ago that I had known and lived with for quite some time….so many twists and turns, it kept be weakened, until one day, I dropped her at the airport (she was leaving on vacation) and I surprised myself….I told her it would be the last time we would see or speak to one another, that I couldn’t beat the pain ,& drama she inflicted. I hugged her., kissed her cheeks with tears flowing down mine and walked away…. after crying all the way home from the airport, I finally caught my breathe, a bit ragged at first, but began to feel like a ton had been lifted off my heart & soul. I never looked back….that was 30+ years ago. Severing toxic people from your life can be hard, but it is sooo necessary to move forward.
Royal sister….I admire your strength!

Rebecca Burgess
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Rebecca Burgess

Michelle Cooper. It’s a state of mind. A loving, passionate, loving way to love and live your life! With Royal friends around the world that support that same belief…. that is Royal

Steven C. Luke
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Steven C. Luke

Michelle Cooper A groundbreaking grassroots movement.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/RoyalSocietyGroup/ follow the link and read the group’s mission.

Michelle Cooper
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Michelle Cooper

What is Royal

Steven C. Luke
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Steven C. Luke

I got rid of my negatives 15 years ago. I had never accepted the negative as my opinion, but by association I was branded.
I never seen or talked to the main person being negative about everything until my 25 year old son’s funeral. His wife and he came to the wake and gave me an envelope full of picture of my son and my family at our businesses annual 4 day camp out and meetings. I cried with the memories of those good few days I enjoyed their company. But I still kept my distance these last 6 months. Not wanting to renew these friendships has kept me locked up in my own little world.
I don’t want to go back to those times and I’m tired hiding from the truth.
Negative people suck you in and destroy your individualist reputation.

Claudia La Grippe
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Claudia La Grippe

I realized my newest friend we had been friends for a 1 1/2 years was TOXIC I never knew when the outbursts would start and they’d end as quick as they started! I had to walk on egg shells! Then finally she blocked me and we had no communication when we see each other now we are civil and that’s it . She was a bully !

Olin Donaldson
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Olin Donaldson
Aya Ayoub
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Aya Ayoub

I never criticise people..
I believe everyone is free to do whatever he wants.

Carolyn Nowling-Archer
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Carolyn Nowling-Archer

Was married to a super negative person for so long. Now trying to feel better about myself and life in general. Thank you for being my “support group”!

Judith Shortt
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Judith Shortt

I was a positive person ,and I let all the negative enter my life now am trying to rid myself of the negativity and surround myself with positive people

Tina Epperson
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Tina Epperson

It’s hard but I am surrounded by negative people my whole family is negative know matter what man I wanna leave an never look back I am from west Virginia I love this

Nurşen Arancı
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Nurşen Arancı

My motto in life is to try to be a good person.Isn’t it the key in all the religions.When you do it ,you get hurt alot at young ages but if you insist life offers you many better ways to deal with them.You get stronger and better.Still I believe there are only two kinds of people Good ones and Bad ones.For the second I can only say “God show them the straight path”

Linda Aguiran Enzesberger
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Linda Aguiran Enzesberger

Doing goodthings in our life, believe in God. That made US positive, happy & contented ❤💙💚

Carmen Joson Lazaro
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Carmen Joson Lazaro

Amelverga Bacus Satorre Jefferson I agree in everything you say..lets pray for them that they may change their heart and avoid mingling with them as much as possible but still we can say hi when we see them..I can feel you have a good heart!

Nurşen Arancı
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Nurşen Arancı

Do your best to stay away from such people..That’s the only solution

Terry L Johnson
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Terry L Johnson

Oh my gosh wow I was in a relationship for 17 years he gave a speech on the shark how they swim in a circle and all the shark does is hunt for prey sleep and the f word then gave me a speech on the inner circle of the family or couple or whoever that makes a circle of any relationship and in reality he was talking about us as in our relationship he was the predator and I was his prey he knew it and I did also it really put that toxic relationship in real time

Tan Amore So
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Tan Amore So

Always positive in life..keep distance from people who keep you always attacking u negatively important u can’t disturb them..

Cee Cee Love
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Cee Cee Love

I’m well aware to the love.. I tune in but to late to give my opinion.. Ugh..

Donna Luscombe
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Donna Luscombe

Kathlyn DC Palafox I could tell that You would of had Full Respect..💖 I Just like to share lovingly where I feel I can, in hope of helping Someone …. As I Truely Believe That The People Who Need Loving the Most are Genuinely those Who Hurt the Most. …..I’m so used to being told that my Words Thoughts and Ideals are Stupid and I’m just Mentally Ill…..for Believing what I Believe in……So thankyou for concurring with me!!!! Lol 💜

Lindsey Willow
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Lindsey Willow

I have such issue with this

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

Donna Luscombe I do have high respect for them and when they are oppressed I advocate for them. As an expression “we’ll be there for you”. Truly we have different ways of learning about universal humility. Thanks Donna for that kind reminder.☺

Amey Mey
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Amey Mey

Heyyy…. im from indonesia.
I had glasses like you jennie… lol

Donna Luscombe
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Donna Luscombe

Kathlyn DC Palafox …… Remembering Never To Tread on the Broken as that’s when you cut your feet…..I once Saw a Man with No Shoes, then I Saw a Man with No Feet!!! If Everyone was accepted as Each Other just in a Different Mode of Learning we would be An Amazing Planet!!! Keep Dreaming Donna Keep Dreaming…Lol..😆

AJ Satorre Bacus
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AJ Satorre Bacus

Me I ltet all those toxic go and just pray for them,say hi when I see them around.Still love them not hate them.But I never be associate with them anymore.Because it you still stay same crowd it’s same problem over and over never gonna change at least this people are realizes what they doing to others.How they hurt them,no not many of us realize it what we do to others.so better to stay away is not mean that you dont care you dont have a good heart.That because they dont care.It happen to me many times I try my best to treat them right the way I want to be treated myself. But hey I am a patients person.I always forgive giving people a lot of chance.And I just keep hurting many times too.Now that I’m older I feel that I dont have no time for the game of other.Life is too,short better enjoy it.how you enjoy it if your in a toxic crowd come on.this people this is the way they are if they dont willing to change.God knows each one of our heart.

Donna Luscombe
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Donna Luscombe

Rosario Yve I Believe You Are Right!! Peace✌

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

Shelly Robie DeVine true humility, our feet on the ground so we dont step on others but with firmness we stand up for what is good .

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

Gilmar Samijon Echavia Sr. Prayer is powerful .

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

Dolores Maria Sosmena you’re welcome. You can simply call me Kath.

Shelly Robie DeVine
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Shelly Robie DeVine

I agree, I know others opinions don’t matter, the lord made me & loves me the way I am. So I don’t let others try to upset me or put me down.

Tripty Sharma
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Tripty Sharma

Don’t give response or reaction to that negativity and do something different which gives u inner peace .like random act of kindness ….

Dolores Maria Sosmena
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Dolores Maria Sosmena

Thank you mam Kathlyn DC Palafox! God bless you and family.

Gilmar Samijon Echavia Sr.
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Gilmar Samijon Echavia Sr.

You need to Pray.

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

Dolores Maria Sosmena by all means. It is intended to empower each other.

Lisa Ronayne
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Lisa Ronayne

WTF does that mean—” grass that attacks” ?????????????????

Magg Level
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Magg Level

Mike Clemens, first you have to forgive yourself! There’s no need to beat yourself about the past. Be a better person and love her from afar, apologized to her and hope she will forgive you. May you be peaceful within!

Dolores Maria Sosmena
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Dolores Maria Sosmena

Hi there Kathlyn DC Palafox! Can I repost you comment on my wall? Your comment is an awakening for everybody. Love it. Am Dolores MariaSosmena from the Philippines. Thank you.

Divas Yve
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Divas Yve

Holiday for just to get rid of negative period

Divas Yve
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Divas Yve

You know they should create a holiday for bbb. And toxic people smacking day or holiday😗 in to be legal pls lol

Miranda Lalah Sabal
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Miranda Lalah Sabal

Through meditation. .
And positive mind…helps a lot!😉😉😉😉

Divas Yve
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Divas Yve

Truth is teaching me to choose better in my heArt I believe everyone has heart

Klyn Dcruzp
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Klyn Dcruzp

👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑Accept that there are negative people and choose personal affirmation to focus on positives

If they are unkind, be kind
If they are closed minded, have an open heart and mind

Be the extremes of the negatives and do not be an accomplice or follower of a pessimist

Flocked with positive people and you will soar high👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

Divas Yve
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Divas Yve

Some people don’t deserve this world🤗 100% get rid all negativity . God bless this world and also open people heart to bring love and peace . To those out there who are suffering and have less in this world. Nobody is perfect are you

Gayle Zandbergen
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Gayle Zandbergen

Thankyou! Peace and Love to you both!

Tonya Williams-Evans
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Tonya Williams-Evans

JW.ORG is teaching me how to make much better choices in my life now. I am learning how to be more understanding & forgiving. I know now how to set boundaries & say NO to anything unhealthy for me. I love the new sense of empowerment that I have now, since I’ve been studying the Bible with JW’s. I was abused ALL my adult life & now I have kicked all the negative plus controlling people out of my life! I refuse to be desperate for toxic people’s love & approval anymore. “I’ve come to learn that GOD truly loves me!” He proved it by giving His Son over to be sacrificed in order for me to receive forgiveness for my many sins. I now have a positive HOPE & outlook for the future with a new transformed attitude & helpful knowledge that leads to a better way of life! Since I started studying the Bible, I don’t even HATE people anymore who have hurt me in the past! I don’t even care about that burden nor nonsense anymore. I’m too busy having a great time learning new positive things & living a happy more fulfilling life. I invite you to FORGIVE yourself for permitting toxic people to hurt you for so long. Forget them! Move on with your life! “You don’t need those vicious predators NO MORE!” Find new friends & a family in the TRUTH!!! I don’t even allow my parents nor my other relatives to humiliate, control nor mistreat me anymore! I have definitely become very BRAVE, since I’ve come to know GOD better! Give it a try! Visit the official website of JW.ORG and become liberated by the truth, which leads to Everlasting Life!

Donna Luscombe
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Donna Luscombe

Mike Clemens it sounds to me that you are already on the Path to fixing it…. You Have obviously Realized that you may of Let Down the One Thing You Did Right in your Life…. For whatever Reasons …. (Thats your story)… although I wouldn’t mind making a bet on the fact that you were More than likely Seduced into Believing that a Material world was Easier…A life With fewer Responsibilities and heaps More Fun!!! …. The mere fact that you accept wholeheartedly that You made Wong Choices…. and that You are Sorry for whatever you Did , Do or Done!!! 💜 Unconditional Love will always Shine Thru……embrace your good and Bad Kama…..For it is there for you to Learn the Answer to WHY??! Goodluck my Friend.

Dolly Erasquin Ocon Salcedo
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Dolly Erasquin Ocon Salcedo

Thanx for the advise & thank u for sharing

Shanon Enterkin
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Shanon Enterkin

And the bond more the not never be the same

Shanon Enterkin
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Shanon Enterkin

By saying you’re sorry

Shanon Enterkin
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Shanon Enterkin

Mike Clemens you try to fix it be way ng you’re sorry and acknowledge ing all the wrong you’ve done then you ask for another chance and you change you’re behavior

Pamela Sharrock
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Pamela Sharrock

Nel Mirasol Atilano

Zsoye Taylor
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Zsoye Taylor

It’s really making me think in head, what to know in heart

Joshua Clemens
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Joshua Clemens

What about if I’ve been that person in other people lives(my kids) and my direction changed several years ago but we are still estranged and I deeply regret all the harm I’ve caused, there just doesn’t seem to be a way to reestablish the bond we had when they were young. This separation is all consuming. I suppose I’ll spend the rest of my life suffering from being alone, let me make it clear this is all my fault, I get it but how do I fix it

Pamela Sharrock
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Pamela Sharrock

What is a royal ?

Scott Solotki
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Scott Solotki

U can make it think positive

Govintharaj Mohan
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Govintharaj Mohan

Yes. And I can’t survive because a lot of negative thought.

Ivailo Penchev
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Ivailo Penchev

With flawless faith in yourself and your positive energy
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Andrew Watkins
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Andrew Watkins

Thanks for sharing your Attitudes and Beliefs with the world. We truly Value what you have chosen to do. It is amazing in my opinion and sooo healthy and helpful.

McGill Media
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McGill Media

Do you want to be supported and appreciated? Are you tired of negative people? You are awakening to your Royalty. Finding the family you never had. You are the Freedom Fighter of Your Own Life!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/RoyalSocietyGroup/

Em Beaulieu
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Em Beaulieu

my bf accuses me of ridiculous stuff….cuz I use to be super sick with addiction. .hard to explain to anyone who hasn’t dealt with it 😉😠 I never judge cuz I’ve only walked in my own shoes…and that is plenty..I sympathize easily now

Dušica Brzaković
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Dušica Brzaković

? What does royalty in your world consider? I would like to know more before I say I like and neef it

Dušica Brzaković
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Dušica Brzaković
Ruthie Garry
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Ruthie Garry

Nurşen Arancı Thank you. If there any Widow out there I’m here. I have a lot of life’s I would love to help others! ♡ XORTMOX ♡

Nurşen Arancı
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Nurşen Arancı

Ruthie Garry sorry for your belovedRuthieThe key is in the word beloved.Iam sure he has left you quite a lot of precious memories .These will help you dear

Ruthie Garry
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Ruthie Garry

Hi! My name is Ruthie I live in Yucca Valley California USA. I love watching you. I lost My Beloved Husband Mark six years ago. .-we were together almost 30 year’s .I have no one. It’s very hard but you make me feel better about myself . Thank you! ♡ Ox Remember the Magic Xo ♡

Maria Luisa B Yrstrz
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Maria Luisa B Yrstrz

Tell me how..

Oluwatoyin Suulola
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Oluwatoyin Suulola

Yes

Louise Fry
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Louise Fry

Diana….👭

Teresa Sapphire Horner
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Teresa Sapphire Horner

YES

Tiwari Poonam
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Tiwari Poonam

Yes

Kora Rodriguez
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Kora Rodriguez

Yes

Humaira Makhdoom Randhawa
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Humaira Makhdoom Randhawa

Bravo My Beautiful Royal sister Tammi Heffernan for Ur Strong Belief. May the Divine One Bless’s U with THE Best. Much Love & light ❤️👑. Stay Blessed. Stay Tuned to Life and Keep Inspiring. ❤️👑 . ONELOVE #

Stella Ondari
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Stella Ondari

Yes.

Freddie Ramos
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Freddie Ramos

How??

Tami Heffernan
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Tami Heffernan

Yes I Am!! Along with the Lord by my side, I walk onward in my journeys of life in this realm!! 🙂

Sandra Holly
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Sandra Holly

But… I Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ my Savior. Not a royal crown.

Halley Hodge
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Halley Hodge

Pay attention to those that don’t clap for you when you do well

Dawn Marie
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Dawn Marie

No, don’t pay attention to the non-supporters. Leave them at the curb. Let them stray from you.

Haji Ishaq
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Haji Ishaq

توجہ سے سنو اور لفظوں پر دھیان دو

Tee Leen
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Tee Leen

I get that. I know plenty of people. And even when they clap at you, you will know the difference of genuine and fake interaction 😊😄

Carol Murray
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Carol Murray

Everyone I care for so much takes advantage of me and uses me…. PLEASE HELP ME !! :'(

Joan Holly
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Joan Holly

Teach yourself at first to say no and get louder each time. Do you think they won’t like you if you say no? If they do they are only using you.

Carol Murray
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Carol Murray

I CAN’T THANK YOU ALL ENOUGH FOR CARING AND UNDERSTANDING … RIGHT NOW SOMEONE I THOUGH I WAS HELPING OUT HAS SOME OF MY MEDICATION AND I DOUGHT LIKELY TO HAVE IT BACK… THE THING IS; AFTER BROKEN BONES AND SHATTERED BONES IN MY BACK AFTER ONE DAY WITHOUT I FEEL IT AND IT HURTS SO BACK IT WAS INJURED LIKE THAT 3 TIMES IN LESS THEN 1 YEAR AND ONCE IT ALMOST KILLED ME !! NOW I AM SUFFERING FOR TRUSTING I WOULD GET THEM BACK… I SHOULD NEVER DO THAT BUT I UNDERSTAND OTHERS REAL PAIN AND AMONG BEING SO TRUSTING AND LOVING TO EVERYONE… HE IS BREAKING MY HEART AND HE DOESN’T EVEN CARE IS HOW I AM FEELING RIGHT AT THIS MOMENT… :'(

Carol Murray
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Carol Murray

Tina Benitez Yup I hear you with the family thing… but, they are saying it will be different after about 7-8 years now !?!? They are suppose to help me with painting and floors etc in my house… time will tell… cause I can’t deal with all the lies and bs from people that are not family like a very special male friend I have made and falling for him but someone is intercepting so if that is the case well I will back off and continue with my business (s) !!! Wishing you all the best to you as well Big Time !!

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

I completely relate and I struggle keeping things to myself but I have to chime in. I’m at a point in my life now where I decided that I have to let my family go. It’s not easy when you’ve always been a part of a big family. It’s like admitting that you life was a complete lie and they are not capable of unconditional love. I’m tired to surrounding myself with hypocrites.

Tasha Olifant
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Tasha Olifant

yoh,,,,,im struggling with the same problem,,,,too soft,,,know the facts,,,but still,,,,,

Peace Bliss Serenity
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Peace Bliss Serenity

Tk cr b happy wid urslf find peace n happiness in urslf ur life

Shemarva Beth Davis
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Shemarva Beth Davis

That was happening to me a lot til I forgave myself for not knowing how to stop it & others for doing it. I am still learning Mature relationship skills for myself and in dealing with others. I am practicing setting boundaries so that neither I or other people end up trampling all over me. I figure I am the one who has to keep me safe & taken care of. In my experience, people that genuinely care about you won’t mind learning how you like to be treated. The ones that do mind I respect their decision & let them go. How I’m treated in a relationship just isn’t negotiable. I also don’t a low my help to be taken advantage of. I just recently over the years started to get that its my right to choose decisively who gets what is precious to me. Hope my experience helps.

Johan Christensen
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Johan Christensen

I’m a 23 year old operates like a 43 year old I feel you

Krishna Ramsoobag
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Krishna Ramsoobag

Just stop letting them bro….we all have to!!

Susan Ogden Crowe
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Susan Ogden Crowe

You get what you tolerate, folks. Life will hand you exactly what you believe you are worthy of.

Cindy Esparza
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Cindy Esparza

Carol,i can so relate to the same of being taken advantage of ,its the fact that people miss interpet kindness for weakness ,just cuz your nice & have patients & forgiving ,people tend to look at it like we are weak & some think we’re foolish or dumb for forgiving once too many or still around to help therefore people think they can walk all over us but when we finally had enough & see that some people just don’t ever change & we put an end to this type of abuse then they tend to get offended but we must move on from this ,theres a limit to everything. And we aren’t anybodys toy,to have them play games on us . The best feeling is leaving the negative for positive!!!!

Sheharyar Munir
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Sheharyar Munir

There is a golden rule in life
“Treat others how they treat you” , just try to keep yourself away from these kind of people, live your life, try to be happy :)!!

AJ Satorre Bacus
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AJ Satorre Bacus

I been there Carol a lot of time in my whole life I use to get mad,hurt, angry frustrated,disappointed,it doesn’t help.Just tress you out. I let them go,and just start praying for them.And I stop associate with the..Just say hello and keep my distance from them.

Sylvia Cangemi Mautner
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Sylvia Cangemi Mautner

Me too carol Murray. And..
I totally agree with you Eric Estrada. I am too nice and hate confrontation so I don’t fight back cause I have anxiety attacks. I get told all the time to grow balls but I just am not a fighter, I’d rather walk away and not get into anything. I am getting better at being peaceful instead of angry. 💃🌺👍

Eric Estrada
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Eric Estrada

It’s because your nice and they may not like that…they mistake your kindness for weakness when your kindness is really your strength ….I’m not saying your weak I’m just saying they may think you are because your soul is so beautiful

Shana Salem
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Shana Salem

Me too.!

Shana Salem
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Shana Salem

Mr carol Murray .Tell me about it.!!

Katie May
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Katie May

Carol i had the same thing , too. But believe me There are people who love you. Its gonna be Great 😀 @ Carol Murray

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m a lil slow on FACEMY ASSBOOK so please bear with me!! Lol!! JUST WHAT EVER YOU DO, KEEP SMILING!! “

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I hope IT HELPS YOU!!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Thank YOUS guys for taking the time to read my crap!! Its NOT crap actually as some would think.. ITS ACTUALLY CALLED “LIFE” !! LOVESZZ YOUSZ GUYSZ-AHH!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

IVE GOT THINGS TO DO, DAMNIT!! LOL!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m just get scared more for my family than I do for myself!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

No one can take that away from me!! People get confused on the positions they have in life. THATS NOT WHAT ITS ABOUT!! IM SURE THEY “SHOULD” FIGURE IT OUT!! REALY!!….FOOTPRINTS!!! NEED I SAY MORE!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I Dont have time , its scetchy!! I still could live to be a 100 with the right insurance and Dr.s, I believe!! But I Dont see it any time soon!! There’s a lot of hope!! I’m OK either way, just live it to the fullest that you possibly or ably can!! IT ALL YOU CAN DO!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Even if I Dont like someone , I WILL STILL TRY TO HELP THEM!! THATS JUST ME!! I JUST GOTTA LEARN WHEN TO SHUT IT DOWN. I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT!! ITS JUST THE TIMING!! IM ALOT BETTER UNDER MY CIRCUMSTANCES. IF I WAS HEALTHIER ID PUT UP WITH MORE!! I KNOW ME!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

The good LORD HAS HIS DATE!! I FEEL IF YOU CAN MAKE AN IMPACT , HE WILL KEEP YOU HERE!! THERES ALWAYS THAT QUESTION!! IT DONT MATTER TO ME!! I WILL ALWAYS TRY TO HELP TILL MY FINAL HOURS!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

My Mom even died at 62 and she was stronger than me!! That’s what scares me!! Never take life for granted . It doesn’t matter how old you are or how you even feel!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Thank YOUS Guys for your support!! I DO APPRECIATE EVERYTHING!!!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Shit I think a 60 year old can beat my ass!! Lol!! God Bless You IF YOU ARE 60!! GOD MAY BLESS YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m 43 that operates like a 60 year old!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I think Gods keeping him on his toes for my crazy butt!! I got issues!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

But it’s not terrible!! Lol!! I’m so glad he’s here!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

He actually and truthfully gets around better than I do!! Its terrible the man 71 YRS old and he still kicks my ass!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

He’s so strong!! Survived a shattered ankle, cancer 3x, heart attack with stents , blood clots , hemorrhage ing and now they’re draining fluid from his lungs. HE IS SUPERMAN!! I CALL HIM SUPER POPSZZ!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m getting aggravated!! My Dad just called from the hospital!! I’m ssooo fortunate to have him!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Help

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

It may hep generations ahead

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

It may generations ahead and that better than nothing for I know I’m left behind!! I’m not stupid!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

God BLESS YOUS!! I GOT A BIG BATTLE AHEAD OF ME AND IF WE HAD THE TECHNOLOGY WE DO TODAY I WOULD HAVE STARTED SOONER!! I JUST DONT EXACTLY KNOW WHAT IM DOING OTHER THAN GETTING THE WORD OUT!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

S P ell check always helps !! Lol and I made sure yet and it still over rides me!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m sure there’s more type Is!! Its my phone and me!! I’m not that savy!! Lol!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I wouldn’t even be speaking to you!! Sorry that’s just me now!! I’m on my silly phone that I Dont exactly get along with!! Lol!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’ve done research up TO my rear end HOWEVER REGARLESS your labled, targeted with this shit and ITS GOTTA CHANGE!! I HEAR YOU CANT GET IT FROM SEX OR KISSING NESSESARLY UNLESS YOU GOT INJURYS OR OPEN CUTS, WOUNDS! ONE THING YOU DONT REALISE A TOE NAIL CLIPPER YOU CAN GET IT “IF” THERES A BLOOD TRANSFER!! SO IT CAN BE THAT EASY!! SAY I CUT MY TOES AND BLEED AND THEN YOU USE IT AND CUT “OPEN” YOUR TOES ITS A DAMN POSSIBILITY YOU CAN GET IT. I GOT DOCUMENTATION IN 1991 WHEN I WAS 19 THEY TOLD ME NOT TO WORRIE ABOUT IT ON PAPER YET!!I PANICED THAT MY UNBOURN DAUGHTER WOULD HAVE IT AND I NEVER GOT ANY ANSWERS!! EVEN WHEN SHE WAS OLDER AND GOT VIOLATED BY AN OLDER MAN. FUCKED UP SYSTEM WE GOT HERE!! ITS HELPED ME FOR ID NEVER HAVE GOTTEN CURED FROM CANCER AT THE AGE OF 20. BUT ITS CHANGED SO DRAMATICALLY I DONT TRUST IT ANYMORE !! I SEE AND FEEL THE DIFFRENCE!! I WAS ON MEDICAID WHICH WAS SEPERATE FROM THAT FOR A LITTLE BIT BUT ONCE I WENT BACK TO THE COUNTY IT DRAMATICLY CHANGED.. I USED TO BE THE TYPE ID WORK 2 JOBS TO AVIOD THE SYSTEM FOR OTHERS NEED IT MORE THAN ME AT THE TIME BUT MY HEALTH IS FINALLY FAILING ME!! I HAVE HOPE AND STRONG SENCE OF PRAYER!! THE ONLY AND ONE THING I AM VERY CERTAIN OF IS THAT GOD IS WITH ME!! THAT, THAT!! I DONT WHAT YOU BELIEVE BUT THIS I DO CERTAINLY KNOW!! I WOULD EVEN BE SPEAKING TO YOU RIGHT NOW IF IT WAS ANY DIFFRENT. HE PUT ME HERE FOR A REASON AND I ONLY PRAY I DELIVER HIS REQUEST!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I know EVERYONE IS GOING THREW PAIN!! NEVER UNDERESTIMATE SOMEONES LIFE IT CAN BE BETTER OR WORST THAN YOUR OWN!!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Linda Sagstetter Haapala have you looked into home health care? They will come out and help you with your mother and give you a little break. Plus you can look into private home health care. Medicaid/Medicare. V.A. . hope this helps.

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Try to find a good father for your daughter with this shit!! I NEVER DID OVIOUSLY, WE DONT TALK!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Ill stand My ground on that- Dont get upset.. I just had a long ass journey with this garbage. YES COME TO FIND MY EX USED WHEN HE WAS GROWING UP. IM PAYING HIS PRICE AND HES DEAD THE FATHER OF MY CHILD. I LEFT HIM TOO SO IVE BEEN A SINGLE MOM!! ITS BEEN HELL!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

That’s all I care about !! There’s no disease that should be singled out!! I got it from using my daughters fathers razor stupid me!! 1990-1991 I was probably one of the first cases and they would burn you house down back then!! I DONT WANNA HEAR IT FOR I NEVER SHOT UP TO DESERVE THIS AND IM THE ONE IT WILL TAKE TO MAKE A DAMN DIFFRENCE!! NOT EVERYONE WHO HAS CONTRACTED THIS IS A DRUGGY!! ILL STAND MY ON THAT!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Overnite

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

It doesn’t happen overbite and that’s what scares me!! I’m doing or trying to do something about it . It Dont bother me it won’t happen in my lifetime!! Just as long as it happens!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I NEVER take ANY care for granted IM GREATFULL. I CAN BREATHE!! I DONT THINK YOU KNOW ME OR THIS SYSTEM. I JUST DONT APPRECIATE OUR HEALTH CARE SYSTEM FOR ITS AS ADIQUITE AS IT CAN BE IF YOUR NOT IN MY CONDITION. I HAVE CANCER AT A STRONG POSSIBILTY TOO. NOTHING IS DONE BUT LEADINFG ME INTO A BRICK WALL. IT HAS PLENTY OF ROOM FOR ADVANCEMENT!! HELL KIDS NOW KNOW MORE THAN WE DO AND IT GETS THEM IN TROUBLE. PEOPLE ARE FOCUSING ON THE WRONG THINGS!! ITS GONNA TAKE ALOT OF TIME!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I denied it to myself for they ignored it

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I’m 43 and I FEEL IT NOW!! BELIEVE THAT!! IT STARTED WHEN I WAS ABOUT 26-27 BUT IDWNIED IT FOR IT WAS THROWN UNDER THE RUGG SO TO SAY!! IM FUCKED NOW BECAUSE I CANT HANDLE THE MEDS TO CURE MYSELF. ID DIE TRYING!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

They do not believe in helping people with hep c!! Look at the price tags!! Terrible!! Everybody probably has it too!! I get very angry and I pray I can do something about it!! I NEVER EVER SHOT A NEEDLE IN MY LIFE!! I WAS PREGNANT WHEN I FOUND OUT IN 91 WHEN IT FIRST WAS EVEN KNOWN AND THEY SAID NOT TO WORRY ABOUT IT AND I GOT IT ON PAPER THAT THEY ACTUALY SAID THAT!! FUCKED UP!!!! IT WAS MY CONCERN FOR MY CHILD!! THATS ALL I CARED ABOUT AND THEY WOULDNT TELL ME A THING!!

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Stay centered and be the guardian of your own feelings. You’ll be okay Carol Murray!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

If you CAN ACTUALLY HELP SOME ONE… WE ALL GOTTA BE SURE ( EVEN MYSELF) WE DO IT RIGHT AND USE BABY STEPS!! NOTHING HAPPENS OVER NITE!! IM OVERWHELMED MYSELF BUT I HAVE A STUPID SENCE OF CONFIDENCE THAT ILL PULL OUT OF THIS WHICH WILL NEVER BE EASY!! IM DISABLED IN EVERY WAY!! IT WOULDN’T BE SO BAD IF I HAD PROPER HEATH CARE TO OVERCOME THIS SHIT AND HELP OTHERS THREW IT!! THATS MY GOAL!!

Kara Jackson
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Kara Jackson

I understand I’m going through similar.
But learning to stop the trend many can relate with.

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

God had introduced me to this man yet!! I’m SERIOUSE!! You’ll get bone Chile’s of what I’ve got to tell you!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Monica I had the same problem for I got hepititis c since I was 19 YRS old and now I’m 43!! Call. Me!! I’d be more than happy to talk to you!! I lost Mr Right which took me a life time to meet. I wasn’t even able to tell him yet!! Its been over a YRS now AND I STILL THINK ABOUT HIM EVERYDAY!! ITS SAD BUT LIFE LEARNING!! 727- 315-3781!! ILL BE EAGER TO ANSWER!! WHATS REALY IRONIC IS I PICKED SAINT MONICA AS MY CONFIRMATION NAME WHE I HAD CONFIRMATION. IM CATHOLIC!! PROUD OF IT TOO!! GOD BLESS YOU!!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Monica O Sulliva why in the world honey are you letting this man hurt you like this??? You have a catheter so what! You are already fighting one huge battle baby, why let some little mole hill upset you and make you not love yourself!!! The lady I am looking at in your profile pic is one beautiful lady!!!! You don’t need the stress that he is putting on you with you already sick and hurting. Sit down with him and tell him what is what!!! Say this is how I feel and if you don’t get the respect that you Beautiful lady deserve then you have to stand up for yourself!!! They are plenty of people baby girl that would gladly take your place just to be on that waiting list for a kidney. Honey a catheter bag does NOT define who you are!!!! Love yourself!!!!! You can beat this!!! Don’t let anyone bring you down and have that control over you honey. Sit down with him and get his side of the story. If you don’t get what you deserve, well you know what to do!!! Beautiful lady love life and yourself. Be happy!!! Bigggg hugs!!!!

Amber Gaylord
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Amber Gaylord

so true

James Morgan
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James Morgan

James Morgan hi

James Morgan
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James Morgan

Wendy Lynn Thorstensen

Linda Haapala
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Linda Haapala

Jennifer Johnson thank you Jennifer…maybe I just need some validation, to know I am heard…grateful for technology!! It’ll be ok…maybe just need to breathe, meditate, a little utube yoga…and a hot bath followed by a good book. Thank you again ❤

Wendy Thorstensen
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Wendy Thorstensen

I totally understand, same thing happens here

Linda Haapala
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Linda Haapala

Priscillia Swinson Ward thank you but I will admit it is hard some days…but like I said I am so grateful to be able to keep her at home…just sometimes need to breathe!! Thank goodness there’s a Starbucks close…need interaction of just to watch and smile at people…it will be ok I know…❤

Cristy Murata
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Cristy Murata

First Love yourself!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Linda Sagstetter Haapala hugs!!!! You are a great daughter!!!

Jennifer Johnson
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Jennifer Johnson

Linda, …”peace to all” is the only way to go. Thanks for sharing your story. Try choosing yourself for the next 24 hours…and “No” is a complete sentence.

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Michelle Rettka I can feel your pain by just reading your post. I am soooooo sorry about what you went through starting at 5. I saw you say time don’t forgive. No honey, you don’t forget but you have to forgive to move ahead. I to was molested at age 8, and raped by a family member at 15. Will I ever forget it??? No way!!! But I forgave them to be able to have peace in my heart! I hope and pray you find the peace. ( I am not saying to forget it or get over it. ). I hated when people said that to me. Because that is something you can never do. Hugs to you honey!!

Linda Haapala
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Linda Haapala

Meant beat it down

Linda Haapala
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Linda Haapala

I am a caregiver to my mom…I love my mom…she lives in AZ…I live in MN and sometimes in HI….my husband is in MN…he comes to visit every 4-5 mo. My mom has terminal cancer but still in stage she can move around her home but not cook clean drive get groceries laundry etc. I am the only daughter and retired early so I really have no reason why I can’t be here…I just feel stuck…she won’t consider going back to MN/WI where my much younger brother and my adult children live…I am so grateful I am able to do this for her. My dad passed away 2 yrs ago leaving her alone…unexpectedly…suddenly…I should just suck it up, be grateful, and do all I can to make what time she has left…God is in charge…thanks for listening…I will survive and there are so many that would love to be in my shoes…they may have been denied this opportunity…thanks I have to stay positive and when negativity reels its ugly head best it down…peace to all

Susan Downing Moses
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Susan Downing Moses

Amy Evans Do THEY say yes when YOU need help??

Regina Swentkowski
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Regina Swentkowski

Sounds like you are an enabler, it’s easy to be taken advantage of if you’re a nice, concerned person. Sometimes you just have to say Enough! Good luck! Been there.

Susan Downing Moses
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Susan Downing Moses

Do what I did. Cut them off forever! It is Not your loss it is your gain. Saying No is your choice. Do it!! If you say NO and they give you crap then you Know they aren’t worth your time. The first time is the hardest but it gets so much easier each time after that <3

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Monica O Sulliva thank you! Hugs to you !!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Mary Lou Robinson thank you! Made me a better person today because of my addiction/disease. I don’t wish it on anyone but for me it really was the best thing to happen to me. I am a stronger person, I am way more caring, I help anyone in need from their addictions.

Dorothy McDermott
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Dorothy McDermott

look after number one being you you can not expect to take care of others if you can’t take care of yourself first and foremost

Beeru Limbu
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Beeru Limbu

Keep caring .. u r going good ..
And avoid their taking advantages on u .
Coz u know u care them from the bottom of ur heart 😉😉
And it makes u beautiful and indipendent😊😊

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Those gut aches I had was for a reason. Not because I was actually I’ll, IT WAS NATURAL TO FEEL THE ILL BECAUSE THINGS WERNT RIGHT!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Bohemyong Lakwatsero thank you!

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Xiona Jones thank you!! Loving life and loving myself was the first step!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

10% is what happens to you in life and 90% of how you respond!! There’s a reaction for every action !! ALWAYS KEEP RATIONAL!! DO YOUR RESEARCH!! THATS WHAT GOOGLE IS FOR!! I DIDNT LEARN MOST OF IT HERE BUT I WOULD IF I HAD TO.. MAKE SURE ITS ALWAYS POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT!! DONT SETTLE!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Bad will happen in life!! Its the result of when and how you deal with them!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I glad to say I FINALLY DO NOW!! I THINK!! LOL!! ALWAYS KEEP GOD IN YOUR HEART AND FOLLOW HIM, FOR HES THE ONLY MAN THAT HAS ALWAYS SAVED ME!!!

Josh Stephenson
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Josh Stephenson

Me to

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I can UNFORTUNATELY & HONESTLY SAY , IM LIVING PROOF!! I WAS VIOLATED AT 5 SO THATS ALL I KNEW!! I HAD A GUT ACHES MY WHOLE LIFE SO NEVER KNEW THE DIFFERENCE!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Every time if I would have actually listen to my physical gut- I WOULDNT BE HERE, IN A MESS!! YOUTEND TO DENIE BECAUSE YOU ONLY THINK ITS PHYSICAL WHEN ITS ACTUALLY YOUR DEFENCES GOING UP!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Watch the VIBES!! BAD VIBES GET OUT!! YOU GUT TELLS YOU ITS A NATURAL PHYSICAL DEFENCE MECHANISM

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

Yes AND LOTTS OF GRATTITUDE , THANKS VITA!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I had a X who taught me to take short cuts when I NEVER believed in them. IT DID CHANGE MY LIFE TO THE NEGITIVE!! STAY AWAY FROM NEGITIVE PEOPLE!! THATS THE FIRST STEP!!

Ernesto Consolation Ibanez
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Ernesto Consolation Ibanez

What is prana energy?Vita Herlina Mindset Trainer

Miraculous Vita Herlina
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Miraculous Vita Herlina

Im here for you… Sending u LOVE and PRAYER from Indonesia… Acceptance, forgive, start WISH for ONLY what you WANT to HAPPEN in the future, start being gratitude for all you got, change your perspective, you can change your future by change the way you think and belief. All the best Dear Priscilla.. If you want, you may inbox me and we can meditate together while im sending u Prana Energy.

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

You just gotta be very carefully and only accept the POSITIVE DIFFICULT ADVISE!! THE EASY WAY OUT CAN COST YOU A LIFE TIME!! IT COMES BACK FOR YOU TO FINISH IT!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I thank you ALL!! YOU ALL HAVE HELPFULL ADVISE, THATS WHAT SAVES LIVES BECAUSE WE CANT WAIT FOR ANYONE ELSE TO DO IT!!

James Morgan
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James Morgan

Carol Murray, don’t think you are the only one. I’m going thru the same as you are. It’s awfull to find people you thought are your friends really are not friends at all. Terrible but very true. So now I rely only on myself as a friend to myself. Be careful and take care. Best wishes in your future. God bless you.

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

THANK YOU MONICA!! IVE COME A LONG WAY AND IM STILL LEARNING MYSELF!! GOD BLESS YOU FOR ASKING FOR HELP!! I FIND THAT VERY HARD MYSELF, I JUST GET MYSELF INTROUBLE BECAUSE I “DONT” ASK!! !! ITS VERY HARD!! YOU WOULDN’T BELIEVE THE PEOPLE THAT HELP!!

Nita B Hudson
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Nita B Hudson

Heather Gehring I use the same saying…I realized that it was “my” fault (hard to hear). I “taught” them how to treat me. Taking the permission back is so very hard…they know no other way to be with you. You have to be aware, so as not to backslide, and continually assert your new way of being. It’s SO hard – and exhausting! But slowly it gets easier.

Loretta Asman
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Loretta Asman

Great book that’s helpful title is:
Boundaries
I personally have to learn how to put Boundaries around certain situations & people in my life, otherwise I’m too nice to a fault.
Set those boundaries and you’ll start to feel better

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I hope this helps and I wouldn’t mind helping you!!

Monica O Sulliva
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Monica O Sulliva

Priscillia Swinson Ward. I am humbled to read your post. Delighted for you.love & light.huge hugs hunni.x☺

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

The sooner the better!! Time Dont forgive and neither does concrete!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

I had HELL TO PAY MYSELF AND STILL FEEL THE REPERCUSSIONS OF THEM ALL!!

Michelle Rettka
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Michelle Rettka

You need to learn techniques!! You’ve got to use you maternal instincts!! Use all you 6 sences and find more!! You will NOT find them easily if you shall cloud your own judgement!! That means staying away from things that can ulter your judgment BEING: EMOTIONS (STAY RATIONAL) YOUR GUT INSTINCT TELLS YOU ALL!! IF THERES A PIT IN YOUR GUT MOVE ON!! ( PHYSICAL) ETC. IM SURE YOU CAN FIGURE IT OUT!! DO RESEARCH ON YOUR SENCES!!!! I hate to say, but that’s what it is and I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU!!

Nita B Hudson
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Nita B Hudson

Lynn STewart Ahhh, the guilt trips!

Robinson Mary Lou
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Robinson Mary Lou

Priscillia Swinson Ward congrats on your sobriety

Robinson Mary Lou
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Robinson Mary Lou

Once you decide enough is enough, you have to make sure to follow through. I had a toxic friend, told her I loved her and cared about her but couldn’t live like this any longer. That our time together wasn’t “fun” anymore. I said I need to set healthy boundaries. Well of course she verbally attacked me, berated me, emotionally was abusive, threatened to call the police on me, when that happened I knew I did the right thing. She has been out of my life since last April. Its been wonderful. Of course she has emailed, which I deleted and sent a Christmas card that I didn’t open and threw in the garbage. Do I regret cutting her out of my life? Absolutely not. Do I remember the once good times? Of course but the bad outweigh the good!! I wish you strength and know you are doing the right thing for you!!!!

Lady Aries
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Lady Aries

Bohemyong Lakwatsero very well said…

Mue Kasina
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Mue Kasina

Guys common your value does not decrease based on somebody’s inability to see your worth get it together

Renee Witt
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Renee Witt

I know the feeling

Teresa Valencia
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Teresa Valencia

I totally know what your feeling. Sux! That people are so cruel. They take kindness for weakness

Ernesto Consolation Ibanez
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Ernesto Consolation Ibanez

That is beautiful message Priscillia Swinson Ward,,you gain respect by loving yourself,,,

Xiona Jones
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Xiona Jones

Priscillia Swinson Ward congrats on moving forward in life.

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

I was the same for many years! I was a alcoholic and almost killed myself over this! ( recovering alcoholic 2 yrs 4 months 14 days) Guys you have to love yourself first!! Don’t let anyone walk over you! You have to stand up for yourself! You deserve respect ( I don’t care what you might have done in your PAST) . I had to learn that. I would let people use me and abuse, disrespect me because of low self-esteem because of my past. Today that does not HAPPEN!!!! I love me and I respect me!!! Y’all are all beautiful believe in yourself!

Norma Hennessy
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Norma Hennessy

When you care and you give, give because you are happy to do so. If you are not happy or comfortable about giving, care enough to be HONEST to yourself and to say NO to the person who wants something from you. By tolerating people to use you by being overly nice, you are enabling them to be liabilities. Care enough to stop them from being liabilities to themselves and others by not tolerating them to use you.

Ernesto Consolation Ibanez
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Ernesto Consolation Ibanez

Yeh its not easy to say no but it is better to say no if you knew that this people are using you,you have your own mind,and the better thing that you can gave to your self is self respect,people that surround you will never gave you respect if you don’t respect your self

Xiona Jones
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Xiona Jones

Then learn to care for yourself and not others.. you can’t please the world.. so please yourself.

Heather Gehring
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Heather Gehring

I’ve learned that people treat you the way you let them. I cut out the toxic, high maintenance people out of my life. So much more peaceful

Annette Hecker
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Annette Hecker

Yes its very hard im going through the same hell 😢

Sugar Moya
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Sugar Moya

Set boundaries. It’s not always about them

Jared Ft Tia
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Jared Ft Tia

how may i help?

Sada Palislamovic
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Sada Palislamovic

XOXO

Susan Ogden Crowe
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Susan Ogden Crowe

Maintain your integrity! You are worth it! So worth it!!

Pamela Wilson
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Pamela Wilson

Whatever is happening you are allowing. When you understand that you can take your power back.

Lorna Kitson
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Lorna Kitson

Fool me once shame on you.. fool me twice shame on me.. we all have our limits to say enough is enough. If they dont give you respect its not your fault its who they choose to be..

Susan Ogden Crowe
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Susan Ogden Crowe

You are allowing it. You need boundaries & assertiveness. Read Where To Draw The Line by Anne Katherine and Your Perfect Right by Alberti/Emmons. You can do it!!

Mue Kasina
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Mue Kasina

Gretchen Bebko Exactly, urself first if u don’t love your self den no one will build urself esteem and be bold and confident your beautiful

Carol Ann Murray
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Carol Ann Murray

Sometimes say no is not as easy as it seem .

Laura Olsen
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Laura Olsen

Just say no

Susie Garcia
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Susie Garcia

Thats how i feel too..
I always had said im the black sheep from the family..
Which i know thats for a fact..
Im always treated different from all my siblings… 🙁

Carol Ann Murray
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Carol Ann Murray

I have learn that sometimes you got yo take care of yourself frist .

Johnson Chris
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Johnson Chris

If you have a man, he should be helping you to put your foot down. You’ve gotta let him help though.

Cindy Orr
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Cindy Orr

People forget that “no”, “go away and don’t come back around me”,even if it’s close family members, so called friends,whomever,,, those phrases exist in the English language.. Learn to use them, repeatedly if necessary.

Ernesto Consolation Ibanez
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Ernesto Consolation Ibanez

Carol Murray,love your self that is greatest love of all,don’t let any one dictate you ,you have your own mind,if people around you are using you and abusing you ,think about to say no,I don’t like that,I have my own mind,I can’t do that,just free to say whatever you want to say,

Mue Kasina
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Mue Kasina

Tammy McKee yeah u shld

Top-top Cutit
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Top-top Cutit

Lol! Funny all I know I was suffering just myself…It’s nice sharing from others having same delima…as I get older and observant…I learned to see myself aswell…and I suppose It’s ok…just keep trying to fix things with ourselves. ..

Master S Dunford
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Master S Dunford

Sorry to hear that

Faith Gent
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Faith Gent

Put ur foot down. Keep strong e show authority
Unfortunately the nicer someone I’d , the more ppl seem to take advantage of them..x

Lynn STewart
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Lynn STewart

I have the same problem. When you say know, they mentally abuse you.

Amy Weathers
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Amy Weathers

It’s hard to say no when you know they need help.

Carol Ann Murray
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Carol Ann Murray

That is me happens so many times

Gretchen Bebko
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Gretchen Bebko

I have that same issues it has to do with my low self esteem that if I say no then nobody will like me. It’s very hard. It pushed my stress level to a point of severity. That’s when I knew I had to stop letting people use me and make myself the #1 priority. We all deserve it!!!

Carol Ann Murray
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Carol Ann Murray

Love the name lol

Priscillia Ann Swinson
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Priscillia Ann Swinson

Stop letting them use you! Stand up for yourself! You come first beautiful lady!!! Hugs

Kamanie Andolino
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Kamanie Andolino

You are not alone 😇🙏❤️

Ravi Ranjan
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Ravi Ranjan

Make ur self strong to being alone,, this is the life we r going to live, simply alone

Gloria Ann Benoit
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Gloria Ann Benoit

Hugs

Tammy Bryant Lehner
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Tammy Bryant Lehner

I have the same issue. I need to learn how to say no…

Mue Kasina
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Mue Kasina

Yea don’t let others use you learn how to say NO and mean it .God will see u thru

Top-top Cutit
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Top-top Cutit

I just woke up oneday and I decided to….no more…just myself…this time…

Top-top Cutit
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Top-top Cutit

Yes same…but I think we should learn to say no…

Michael West
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Michael West

Don’t make yourself available to be used…
People can’t take anything if is not freely given…

McGill Media
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McGill Media

BeRoyal.com

Myco Ibañez Aujero Pereira
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Myco Ibañez Aujero Pereira

I think they means is Loyal not Royal

Jacki Webb
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Jacki Webb

Omg I guess no body knows cause every one keeps asking for someone else to tell wat it is wtf

Bobbie Neff Long
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Bobbie Neff Long

Thank You

Pamela Sharrock
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Pamela Sharrock

Please tell wat is a royal ?

Jacki Webb
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Jacki Webb

Wat is a royal????

Pamela Sharrock
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Pamela Sharrock

What I’d a royal ????

Lexi Tracey
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Lexi Tracey

I wanna be royal 😢

Pauline Karaczewski
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Pauline Karaczewski

I’m a member now!!!

Kathleen Moore
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Kathleen Moore

How do you become a Royal?

Wendy Darling
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Wendy Darling

Can you put YouTube link up as well thanks

Ravi Ranjan
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Ravi Ranjan

Me too

Veronica Medina
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Veronica Medina

I’m now an official Royal

Shıvŕåj Ĺéo
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Shıvŕåj Ĺéo

Yeah!!!

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Was once a victim of my own negativity but I’m finally free!!

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

BrittanyJo O’Rourke good for you!!

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

Thank you so much.

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

Well I’ve done that(: so I’m off to a good start. Anyone that fills my head with negative thoughts I have got rid off(: soo on to level two. Lol

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

BrittanyJo O’Rourke the best advice I can offer is to surround yourself with people that are a positive influence and cut out any negative or toxic people. Again, it’s easier said than done but you’ll know who those people are!

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

There any little secrets to it I should know like pointer?

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

Thank you so so very much(:

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

BrittanyJo O’Rourke it’s not easy believe me, but you definitely can do it!

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

Trying so so hard. I’ve always been thankful… But I need to change my way of thinking most definitely

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Vita Herlina Mindset Trainer and the very same blessings to you! Warmest wishes from the USA!

Miraculous Vita Herlina
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Miraculous Vita Herlina

Chris Gargiulo Thank you so much for your appreciation… Have a MIRACLE and AMAZING LIFE, Have FAITH, i BELIEVE u CAN do it… Best regards from Indonesia

Jean Londri
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Jean Londri

Chris Gargiulo thank you..:)

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Ylevol Naej Angco Drilon I finally made a choice to be truly happy! Believe me, it’s easier said than done but we all have the ability within us to make that choice and change our lives for the better! I’m confident you can too!

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Γεώργιος Φωστηρόπουλος thank you so much!

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Vita Herlina Mindset Trainer thank you so much for your kind words!

Jean Londri
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Jean Londri

How?

Γεώργιος Φωστηροπουλος
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Γεώργιος Φωστηροπουλος

Good for you..keep up the good work.wish you all the best in your life…

Miraculous Vita Herlina
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Miraculous Vita Herlina

We will be HAPPY by CHOOSING HAPPY THOUGHTs, and sharing LOVE ENERGY to UNIVERSE… HAPPY SUNday

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Moganah Govindasamy so true! Best to you as well.

Moganah Govindasamy
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Moganah Govindasamy

Chris Gargiulo all the best. Thats how I got out of depression. I just told myself I don’t need this medications and very fine. The only person can help us is ourselves.

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Jacqueline Porter thank you so much!

Jacqueline Porter
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Jacqueline Porter

Good for you Chris Gargiulo that is truly awesome.

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

I just got tired of feeling down and I mustered up the strength to rise. I also had a lot of love and support from family and friends.

Chris Gargiulo
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Chris Gargiulo

Thank you

Cecilia Murad
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Cecilia Murad
Miraculous Vita Herlina
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Miraculous Vita Herlina

By changing the way we think first, so the thing change also. By “WISH for ONLY what you WANT” and reminding all the time when you are negative energy, and change it to POSITIVE thinking. Directly, all the time. We are the master of our mind. Best regards from me in Indonesia^^

Oscar Ulises
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Oscar Ulises

We are our worst enemies. …

Brittany Jo
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Brittany Jo

^ I’m w him…. I’d like to learn how too.

Murat Sarioglu
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Murat Sarioglu

How

Mue Kasina
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Mue Kasina

Thank God you are free

Chandra Geanetta
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Chandra Geanetta

Being an empath is draining

AngelElly Walker
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AngelElly Walker

Thanxz Jacqueline Porter xx

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

I thought there was something wrong with me. I cannot relate to many people. I can’t understand why I am so different. I’m going to read more about it.

I go out is my way to help people and they so thankful and yet if found that these people who appreciate what I do for them, can easily throw me under the bus. I am afraid of being around people. I even have panic attacks. No. I’m not crazy but I think I’m just tired to being pulled into other people’s drama…

Tina Juhan
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Tina Juhan

me too! I can relate…

Angela West-Layton
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Angela West-Layton

I so agree

Amy Cook
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Amy Cook

Amen

Carol Licata-walter
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Carol Licata-walter

So true!

Beth Smith
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Beth Smith

Teresa Sapphire Horner blessings..

Beth Smith
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Beth Smith

Jeannette Edwards Amen!!! Done it too!!

Teresa Sapphire Horner
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Teresa Sapphire Horner

I’m empathy myself and know how exhausting it is. I take on their emotions and I don’t no how to ground right. I need to learn how to release n let go. Ime learning a bad life lesson now by renting out a room to person who’s a drunk. That’s y I missed last night Caz I had to call law. There’s no law I have now learned. N my own daughtr svtreats me bad

Dagmar Myskova
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Dagmar Myskova

But I would not want to be any other…

Jacki Danaher
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Jacki Danaher

after speaking with my friend to learn about Empathy as, a possibility for my life experiences. I took to the internet for as mush research as I could find it’s amazing I went from never having heard of it to being able to find information all over . as well as an article on Facebook a couple years ago now.

Sharon Lee
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Sharon Lee

I truly understand. I’m also an Empath👑

Fierdous Subailey Solomon
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Fierdous Subailey Solomon

Hi Jacki Danaher, could you elaborate on the information you found, this will be really helpful. Thank you.

Nadine Porter
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Nadine Porter

You need to find the nearest hands on healers & learn how to psychically block the “energy vampires!” There are a lot!

Tim Allen
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Tim Allen

I too was always told I was just too sensitive and took things too seriously.
It was such a relief to find out that I’m an empath.
Yes, it can be very draining. I am still working on letting it go. It is getting easier to let go of what is not mine and work on what is mine to be more balanced.
I only found out a couple of years ago that I’m an empath.
Like others have stated hear, I have a small number of people in my close circle. I avoid big crowds.
I have even been labeled as antisocial. I don’t care. I’m more at peace with not many people around me.

Kathy Ready
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Kathy Ready

Moiraann AngelElly . I’ve become more of a loner after my experience. I get lonely, but even the thought of a being in a relationship is exhausting. Sometimes it takes a while to find out a person is toxic. They can hide things quite well until they’ve sucked you in. That’s exactly the time to walk away. Wish I had. You aren’t alone. People will think what they want no matter what, but you are certainly not a joke.

Rae Lyons
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Rae Lyons

Jacki Danaher. Lol yes thats very common for most empaths especially if we dont know thats what we r n why we feel what we do. And like i said before most of us keep r circles small because it can b so overwhelming n extremely draining

Kathy Ready
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Kathy Ready

Jacki Danaher Thanks for sharing. I’ve always thought I was a head case and a fool. I’ve always been empathetic, but never realized what being a true “Empath” meant. I’m very sensitive to my surroundings, too. Most people don’t understand this about me. I wish my family did. They just say you’re too sensitive and take things personally. If they only knew, but I don’t have the strength or desire to try to explain. Not now, anyway.

Kathy Ready
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Kathy Ready

Rae Lyons It’s such a high price to pay, though. I’m afraid to fall into this trap again. It’s been 3 years and I’m still drained from this person. I don’t want to lose myself completely. It’s hard when their pain becomes your own. I just thought I was an idiot until I discovered that I’m not alone in this. It’s made me physically sick and I’m working on that, too. Some days I wish my heart/mind just didn’t care at all. Thanks for responding. …it helps me.

Jacki Danaher
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Jacki Danaher

Kathy Ready I had know idea what was happening to me when a friend finally gave me the information I needed to research my condition/ability. I felt such a sense of relief
I’m not a head case so to speak. But I am special. Extremely sensitive to my surroundings. When I become overwhelmed with negativity I become physically sick. Happiness is like giving your car a ..JumpStart . I have just close family around me mostly also, anymore is overwhelming. Thank you for this opportunity to share.

Rae Lyons
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Rae Lyons

Moiraann AngelElly. Try to do things that will help u meet other empaths n try to eliminate all of the toxic ppl from your life n yes i know that’s alot easier said then done

Rae Lyons
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Rae Lyons

Jacqueline Porter totally agree

Jacqueline Porter
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Jacqueline Porter

Moiraann AngelElly you are NOT a Joke and those Toxic People who make you feel that way need to be Eliminated ASAP !

AngelElly Walker
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AngelElly Walker

Ppl think im a joke .i have noone in my life

Rae Lyons
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Rae Lyons

Kathy Ready. Ive made the same mistake n had my world torn to shreds because of it n am still learning. Just went thru it again and am healing from it now. We so badly want to save ppl from themselves n help them in any way we can but we pay the price for it every time we do. N yet we do it again because its who we r to our cores. Knowing someone we care about is hurting even if its because of mental illness doesn’t stop us we just want to help them in anyway we can because we feel there pain like its our own

Virginia E. Cervantes
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Virginia E. Cervantes

Very true , I don’t mind listening, but aweeee not all the time.

Jeannette Edwards
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Jeannette Edwards

Yes I’m exhausted with it

Kathy Ready
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Kathy Ready

It is draining. I’m still working my way back from a person that I allowed to use me up, then toss me aside. I helped this person in so many ways. Even when I found out they had a personality disorder, I stayed. I ignored the red flags, because I’ve always been the “fixer.”

Rae Lyons
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Rae Lyons

I think all empaths find it draining its hard enough feeling your own feeling but feeling everyone elses as well is beyond draining thats why most of us try to keep are circles small n avoid large groups of ppl it can b overwhelming especially if u dont yet know your an empath

Amy Langman
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Amy Langman

Acknowledge and LET GO!!! It’s not yours!

Cindy Wilson Halstead
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Cindy Wilson Halstead

I have the same issue as an empath myself.

AngelElly Walker
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AngelElly Walker

So tru

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Amir Afshar

bryant you are the best

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Chris Wrigley

I’m in 👑

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Lynne Cy

Subscribed…😊😊😊

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Anne Garcia

Subscribed!!! 😊 😉 👑

Juli Bruno
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Juli Bruno

Did not want to seem mean…did not know who you guys are,.,bur i am all for positivity…i also hav a big sense of humor😜❤

Ken Chong
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Ken Chong

Predators are all around you. Like the 5 pounds of bacteria in your gut doing good but yet could attack you if you weaken. You may be showing a neon sign saying “Attack Me!” without knowing it. So, do an audit and ask yourself what behaviors you are exhibiting that triggers attack. Stop bleeding your woes or show irritation easily, because that is “blood” to predators.

Tammy Whitaker Livingston
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Tammy Whitaker Livingston

Hmmm Interesting!

Jean Londri
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Jean Londri

So true…