Escaping Toxic People. Surviving Negativity. Owning your power. Becoming Royal.

It says “closed group”, but still join, as I was accepted even after it said it was closed.

lurgan N/I (the spell correct )!

kurgan N/I!

Yeah..that’s right. Don’ t let toxic people in your life..take your time. It’s a waste…give the best time to the best people in your life who give you time and effort for the best ….not for the better …. but for the best…..coz God gives and prepared the best for all of us.

Nonie here from chicago
Im now a fan

Don’t let toxic people get your time

Jean Miller-Alabama-Love Simple Reminders!

This is Tekeli form Turkish rep. Capital Ankara, would like to became one of your Member

Doğa’nın insanlara ihtiyacı yok, insanların doğa’ya ihtiyacı var…

Hi yea cool. So I gotta get some sleep now. It’s nearly 3.00pm in the morning over here. I have saved this video. And looking forward too learning some more later. Xxx

Hi Stacey frm Northern Ireland here.

#Fan!
Thank you !!

Looking forward so much to being part of a loving, supportive group.

Kenneth Stephen Lyons got in…sooo excited…I Feel I Finnaly Found Were I Belong

Hi

Thanks again for all your hard work!

Thinks

Traci A. Moore thank you just got excepted..soo excited…This Is Were I Feel I Belong….Im Truely Blessed….

Kenneth Stephen Lyons I just requested aswell..hope I Get To Join..

Sandra Pearl me to..not sure how this works

Eileen Paciorkowski. Trying to get requested…can someone help me join

I requested to join..pls except…

Ok I asked to join…when or if I will be accepted?

Michelle Lynch welcome

Welcome all the new royals to the community(family)👑👑👑👑

I already follow , have done for some time now !! Well worth it , and am just trying to connect to become a Royal ? 😊

I joined and I added friends

Hit the ” join button ” not sure if it connected tho ? Suppose I will find out soon enough ? 😉

Thanks……

Trying to join from the live feed

Check your email acct. for confirmation.

Not sure if it went thru….but I request to join. ❤️

pls ….pleaaseee…grant my request to join..tia..

Trying to join but it’s a closed group

Nailed it Brooke !

How true

WELL SAID Brook ..

https://www.facebook.com/thebvibe/ I have a competition running for a free reading X

Not really

thats true. greatly articulated.

Exactly!

Truth!

Amen

Oh Brooke, you speak much truth……

True

U are so right. And they will do anything to try to knock u dowm

Agreed Brooke

Well said Brooke. Like it

Love your reply Brooke,
Bang on,

Thank you for you words Loki Wolf 🙏🏻

I have a page if anyone would like to follow xx https://www.facebook.com/thebvibe/

I’ve found people will oscillate to the strongest vibration, if their energy is negative, which is naturally strong, everyone else will oscillate to that low vibration.. Empower yourself to be the strongest vibration n make sure your vibration is powerfully positive.. Namaste brooke.. Hope this was not presumptuous of me

Im put down in all i do….its horrible…frightening as well…

Thank you

You got it!Faith is the key to a successful life along with all of
The passion a person can live and express to the important people in this LIFE!Thank you Bryant and Jenny for your Simple Reminders!

Thank You! 😀

Thannk you….

Thank you so much. You just don’t know how much I needed this.😊

Thank You Guys To-day is very special to me * will come back towards all of you very soon * bye & take care

Cynde Low thought you would like this link the guy is great.

I am always on an off here if you to chat. I am blessed as I know this is the lesson that God has chosen for my daughter and myself. I chose to learn it while smiling 😊

You are a MIGHTY WOMAN!

Friend…, I know God gives strength in those days and I admire you as a mother dealing with CP you show the world at your child it’s a gift to us we actually are learning patience kindness and love thank you moms

I am homeschool mom because my son has disabilities everyday with stupid people have no respect for kids have a disabilities of learning the think it’s a game to them

I have twins only one has cp, single parent also. Some days are but you will get through…,

Whatever our situation – we will never walk alone. We are always carried through the hard times even though it doesn’t feel that way. Every day becomes better and we start to experience GOD’S grace and unconditional love in us, over us and around us. Blessings to you dear Lisa Tumminelli Field. 💕

I was a special-education teacher for severely disabled children and many times as a teacher it’s hard to watch them figure out how to tie their shoe or put on their jacket and I gain strength one day at a time with God’s Help!!😇to teach my lovely parents and my school children….

Thank u. TO Who i will know call my new family. I do take it one day at a time. Thank u all. I cant wait for the next shift change for me and my twins LIFE.

God knows that u candle it very well.

Stay bliving…. & Hope for the best…..

That’s a tough gig x hang in there. Your best days are yet to come x

God is good lisa,

My daughter is 19 she had meningitis at 4 months of age. Lost 3 limbs , epilepsy, tube fed. Blind. You name it and she has it. An our journey is not easy but it is our journey and along the way we meet people and challenges and the extreme of everything. Your husband, a true guardian angel to watch over you and your twins X

U are covered under the almighty blood…keep faith hun…blessings to you and your family

You can do it!!
God will strengthen you daily!!!

Marimar N Dianne thank you so much pls add me as friend…thanks for your understanding and inspiration…

Donna Stokes-Echols, first, my kids are older…16, 17, 19 and the youngest is 13. Also, not sure if you caught the part that I’m disabled? I can’t work, and bc I was a stay at home mom most of the years with my kids, I don’t have enough work credits to even qualify for SSDI. I only get SSI…not enough to support myself. I don’t really have much family that can help me, so I’m kinda on my own. My options are EXTREMELY limited. That’s why I’m still here. We are NOT married, so I’m not entitled to anything and I don’t even have a car.
It all leaves me in a tough predicament. 🙁

Good luck hun. I’m there too.

Aimee Peachez Amaya, hi! Aimee just to let you know that you are not alone Our Heavenly Father is with You‼️

Tracy Flinn .. I use to be in a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP with 3 very young children, but I realized I was only harming my children and myself, I had to change that, I had to do something to no matter how drastic that was to change that, I didn’t have any money put back because every cent I made went toward my kid’s and paying bills because if I didn’t pay those bill they would get shut off … yeah he was working but he wasn’t helping me with nothing, and at first I would give him the money to pay the bills, BIG mistake … my utilities would end up getting shut off and I’m asking him what’s going on … I gave you half the money to pay those bills and they shut them off!! Why didn’t you pay those bills? So I took over paying the bill’s and when he wouldn’t give me any money to pay any of those bill’s and help me with the kid’s when I was working and he wasn’t it was time to go. Sometimes you have to make a choice, what’s better for you and your children, and there are service’s out there to help you until you get back on your feet, I know I did it for my kid’s and myself … I packed up my kid’s clothing and mine in my car and left the house to him. With help from those services went back to school and worked my job … raised my kid’s by myself .. yeah it was tough but I had to do what was best for them, and we were better for it. Once I got out of school I had a better job because I was hired while doing clinicals at one of the hospitals and they liked my work ethics.. I put my heart and mind to do for us and I did it .. anyone can do it no matter your circumstances it just takes heart and believe in what your doing and WHY your doing it!! Wishing you the best .. GOD BLESS!!!

Marimar N Dianne your input was truely inspirational thank you..as i moved me and my 11 year old to be with him only to find out we moved two hours away for no reason..he and his first girlfriend is still together..and I have no family support either..I feel so alone..there was no one back home but my ex family.so I’m trying to make a home here for me and my son…its hard again cause it’s lonely.I don’t have any friends..I’m am also disable but I refuse to let him have his cake and eat it to..he seems to think its ok to have both of us..I don’t..that’s just crazy..I pray for God to help me put this too behind me but it will make it difficult to love again…

l have had to endure them all my life & overcame by consciously choosing a different path & not leaning on or needing a man. dismissing a contra opinion by deeming it negative is cowardice, judgemental & avoidant behaviour – which is probably what you’re used to & what got you where you are now. it takes courage & effort to leave a toxic relationship vs complaining about it.

Strength to you

Jacqueline Kemp sadly going there in first place does not take place in the beginning ..sometimes builts up lowly over years …plus many adult victims were victims in youth were they were taught..programmed… not to speak up ..put up/shut up ..better not tell anyone (fear instilled) sooo as adult when abuse (verbal /mental/emotional/physical/sexual) starts victims handle as did when were children..the saving grace is now there are talk shows that have been showing victims we are not alone ..and what to do ..when seen enough times it often can build up courage to take steps to get help/get out ..it just not as easy as recognize/run …those who have not experienced abuse/programing do not understand/have grace for victims …one should not judge til have walked in the very same shoes (not all put shoes on and take off immediately knowing new shoes are expected to stretch for comfort in time…of course sometimes comfort never comes : 0)

Marimar N Dianne …ohhhh sad i can relate you Ms.Marimar well i need to move on to i waste the time that i share with him but it seems he didnt value for it so i better let go of him.thanx for the words its an open reminder to me..GOD bless

Watch the movie “Perfect Guy”. Sometimes the men or women portray what our hearts long for because that person did something different that sent a stimulating feeling then months later they are beating you down with negativity that makes you feel embarrassed bc you allowed yourself to fall victim. I say your not a victim of that circumstance and you cannot change anyone who does not want to change their negative verbal cues. Life is too short sitting on lemons not making a refreshing lemonade bc life is here to be enjoyed. If your tired of being tired you will leave. God always says “If there is a will there is a way” nothing or no one can hold back a determined mind once they want a joyous and fulfilled life….Know your self worth and that being strong doesn’t always mean sticking something painful out it means having the courage to leave!! Everyone makes mistakes and people shouldn’t judge bc no one person is perfect.

Judgement is fear of the Unknown. Those who do judge you bares all the reflection on themselves as its not about the person they are judging it is about them!! Sad but true!
This keeps me going everyday in my life, it’s dragged me through the toughest times! People can be nasty as hell… But remember it is about them not you!
I battled stage 3 Colon cancer, an abusive relationship, undeserving family members and I stand here far from perfect but I am happy because I won’t stand for someone treating me ill, I do not give permission anymore!
Be safe be well and be happy ladies, all my love xx

No one knows what it’s like unless they have been thru it! If you’ve never been thru it, you should not judge the ones that have or still is! I lived it & that fear you have is so strong!

I been there done that in a 21 year marriage. My son passed 7 years ago n freedom n divorce n guts n no glory could not feel better.

Wow thank you so much. I’m in a similar situation but through the love of God am moving forward though the road is still long

Jacqueline Kemp…you are perfect example of judging what you dont understand, and are one of the reasons we dont leave…because we know people wont believe us. Until you live it, you wont understand it…so either be supportive or dont and excuse yourself.

Qamar Banu Moosani i totally agree….my entire family abandoned me after my mom passed-i have no contact for 3 yrs now… all I got is me so i have no choice but to be brave and strong… you stay strong to lady… prayers n love with you!!!

Not only partners r toxic..even other members of family r toxic..im going through same Tracy Flinn and Aimee Peachez Amaya…We r indians and things and people r conservative toxic and judgemental…but we need to ignore them and move on for ourselves…being strong ladies is the best thing..no one can let us down…love ya both..tc

Tracy, all you have to do is stop this relationship for you and your kids‼️ I know that is easy to say than done but if you have someone in your family that can help you ask for help before you get hurt‼️Ask our lord in prayer to see a solution as soon as possible 🙏🏼✨🙋🏼

Aimee Peachez Amaya and Tracy Flinn, I am praying for both of you. May you find the strength to get out of that relationship.

Jacqueline Kemp don’t be so judgemental, sometimes you don’t realize it’s a toxic relationship until after the fact. Geez

Jacqueline Kemp i hope you never have to endure these things… I love my children and in the begining it wasnt like this so please keep your negative comments to yourself!! As you can see everyone here is being supportive and positive… take your evil judgements elsewhere!!!! To all the rest of you… your comments are so heart warming!!! 🙂

well why did you go there in the first place & then make it worse by having children

Make sure you take care of yourself. I was in a terribly abusive relationship (mentally and physically -mental was worse believe it or not) and i stopped doing things that made me happy bc i felt obligated to make him happy (out of fear mostly) and bc it made him angry if i was happy. It was horrid. I feel for you, i have no children so i cant imagine, but keep your head up…and if you need, message me! Much love from Philadelphia

like wise here i feel my heart is 💔 but as i read those qoutes of simple reminders it help me how to deal those feeling i had now.keepsafe everyone

Praying for the best outcome for you ladies

Sending out my vibration of love and light!!

Keeping you both in prayers daily from now on!! May god give you the courage to leave and knowledge of self worth to pick up the pieces of your soul to move forward in true happiness…Wishing for the best!!

Me to Tracy!! :-/ I am disabled with 2 kids and a bully mean negative husband… I feel your pain…I will keep you in my prayers!!

Work place bullying, what will he do about it? All bullying needs to stop. What will they do about work place bullies and bullying? I was also the only one he treated like this..All he needed to do was be kind, show kindness. I want to bring more awareness to work place bullying in 2016 to help others not have to deal with bullies for bosses. The laws need to change!!! What will they do about work place bullies and bullying, it needs to stop…I was fired 12 days before Christmas…
I use to like people but a bully shot me down! Bosses should lead employees not Bully…Yes not from bullies! What about work place bullies?! Remember bullies come in all shapes and sizes….I was bullied by an adult named Jeff Ursino , my manager at Citibank in Carmel, Ca…after he successfully made me sick with nerves and caused my blood pressure to go up he fired me via UPS 12 days before Christmas while I was out on a workers comp pending case…my family will never forget the pain he caused us….and I haven’t worked since due to all of this.
Jeff Ursino once told me that I couldn’t wear the hats I’d been wearing to work for almost four years with no problem. He said it was company policy yet there was nothing in writing. I called HR and they said there was nothing in the codes about hats. About six weeks later Jeff Ursino decided to tell me that I could wear hats again but only a couple days a week. I asked him what about the policy and he replied ” I’m in control” , it was his way of throwing his weight around, what a bully! He also threatened to fire me for job abandonment if I didn’t show up to work on a day I couldn’t work, my daughter was ill and he was already fully staffed. He put me on the schedule at the last minute to pressure me into working…a Bully at his finest. He also stated that I hadn’t worked on days that I had and I still have a copy of the schedules.
Bullying needs to end and companies need to properly train manages to be leaders not bullies! What will politicians do about it? Nothing! We need to unite and do something about adult bullying and in the work place!
I have two boxes of proof and I did document everything. When I realized that there is actually an Awareness month for anti bullying I decided to tell my story again in hopes of finding an organization that I can help bring light to this also very ugly issue!
What I have mentioned is just a bit of all he did. No one cared or did anything about it. I wrote my leaders, congressmen , senators , mayors, city leaders, the president , attorney general, etc…everyone past the buck. Since then, bullying has come to the forefront and I want to tell my story.
He is a father of 3 sons, still a ” manager” , on the board of trustees for a school district and I can’t help but wonder who he is bullying now.
He had choices and he chose to be unkind, uncaring, not understanding, treated me like crap, ignored what others where doing, focused on me until he ruined me!
ALL BULLIES NEED TO BE STOPPED!!!!! All companies need Bullying training and the manager isn’t always right! Only cowards bully other people! He didn’t care what I was wearing he simply wanted to show who was in control and bully me. The hats didn’t prevent me from doing my job nor did anyone ever complain about them, in fact I got lots of compliments from customers and a couple of his bosses and someone from HR, it’s was great until he showed up as a temporary manager. He just wanted me gone and set out to wrongfully terminate me. He couldn’t even write me up correctly and I have the proof. He couldn’t even fire me correctly as he broke California Labor codes in the process of firing me. He was simply unkind and heartless to me.
Please grow up to be a kind, caring person. Never purposely make someone fear their going to loose their job for putting their daughter first, that’s what he did to me…and yet he is a father.
Time to open their eyes and our leaders and change the laws. Speak the truth state the facts and have your evidence ready! One of the reasons I am doing this is because I have proof, my journal, the forms he used to write me up incorrectly. He was in such a hurry to write me up that the first time he wrote me up he used the wrong form, he used the second warning form. He threatened me with job abandonment yet didn’t know how that law worked. For some reason the universe, my God or what ever you want to believe, had me keep all the evidence. In my journal I wrote daily of what occurred at work, he singled me out. In four and a half years I loved my job 98 percent of the days then he came and ruined not only me but the spirit of that bank branch. He took away causal Friday and tried to take away cookies on Fridays for our customers. He said we all had to only eat in the break room but yet would eat at his desk and not say anything to the pretty blonde when she ate at her station. He took all my family photos down and claimed it was best for my family but allowed others to have their family photos out! A BULLY!!!!please share my story to bring awareness to work place bullying.
The more I read the more I realize he was threatened by me. My reviews didn’t justify what he did. Several times I was asked if I was the manager as he stood next to me. The hat issue was just him being a bully, he ignored what others did and wouldn’t give me credit when it was due to me, he played it down. He snapped his fingers twice, said my name , pointed to the back room and said Damari in the back the very first time he ever addressed me. In the back room he said my reputation precedes me, that upper management had nothing but glowing reports about me. He asked why I thought I do so well and I told him because I love my job. He was a temporary manager, the branch was looking for a full time manager. Jeff Ursino was managing two branches during this process, I was trying to hang in there until we got a new one but he couldn’t wait to fire me. I’m understanding more about bullies these days, it doesn’t make it right but we need to pray for the bully.
That’s was awesome, thank you for caring and reposting. I use his name and the bank and location to keep it real and honest. I have nothing to hide. I use to tell my kids’ if you don’t want grammy to know what you did then don’t do anything you’d be a shamed of because I will tell grammy the truth’ it really helped with their behavior. I once wrote him and asked why he did what he did and I also told him that I hope no one ever treated his family as he had treated mine, but I got no response to my email from him. It’s all true so it’s not slander. Have an awesome day, thank you very much. So sorry about what you went through, hopefully we can get others to come forth and share their stories. I honestly feel that the bully should be called out, if he/she was so proud of their actions then don’t get upset when we share what you’ve done. Please feel free to share my story to bring awareness to work place bullies and bullying, it needs to stop, the laws need to protect the employees and victims not the bully. Share my story please.

Just like bullies do.

Hello there!
Toxic ppl are also the ones who are envious to ur success .. that’s why its like a tree with lots of fruits..they tend to stone or hit the fruits so they can have it! =)

Amen my Friend !! Said very well and So inspiring

Very inspiring and true words of wisdom, thank you Ken Chong.

I like what you said Empathy and emotional intelligence….over logic @Ken chong

😁

I can’t see you now

I am thankful for ur service to humanity n would love to help inspire others just like u are doing on a large scale God bless u

True dat!

Jacqueline Kemp interesting reply but trust us – if you’ve tried EVERYTHING YOUR ENTIRE life & you come to see that they are actually happy to be like that & they REFUSE to change, you have no choice but to leave – remember, you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge

You hit it nail on the head Baby!

While doing that the person will have to listen to snide remarks and all the toxic thingies they say

no actually, that’s a complete generalisation. “toxic” people as they’re (derogatorilly) labelled are generally struggling themselves & may not know any better. how about giving the gift of tolerance & hope – wouldn’t that be more positive than treating them negatively & adding to their pain 😐

True

Hi Nicole from Adelaide south aus

Hi Nicole from Troy, New York USA 🙂

So true I feel what you said about,some know but do not know how for lack of SKILL and KNOWLEDGE ,I can relate I wish so much for someone positive to help me out show me some way because I’m willing to listen learn,my situation is so complicated but so are lots of people

Wonder why you would assume this?

Or lack of support

Hello !

Hello from Oklahoma usa

Hi there!

Hi!!! hi back… from Melb, Australia

Hi

I want to join

Amen.. He Love’s US so much!

Amen me too saved by the blood of Jesus that died on the Cross for me & all that were lost & going to a burning HELL . I’ve been born again & I’m Royalty a child of the most high king Jesus GLORY 😃❤️🙏

Amen to that…
From Philippines

Amen… reminding myself this everyday now!!

hi, good morning from philippines, can we be friends?.

Hello Leticia Garcia! 👑💕👑

I can feel that