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I am alone and I’d rather be alone than with the wrong people!
Right
Me too 😘
What I need is God and a bunch of good, honest and loyal friends to be with.
No problem at all with being alone!
I happen to like me 💖&🌟 😘
Strange how I agree to a point that being alone is vital to yourself and stress levels but I also think finding that someone is vital too
Same here
Agree 👍
Amen. I do agree
Count me in
I like it by myself and to have my own timetable
Amen
Me alone too
I am not alone,God is with me on my journey !
Yes’
Agree
such a positive thought that suits me right!
I enjoy being alone rather than with wrong people.
Same here. Enjoy being able to do what ever I like 🙂
My mom just told me this on the phone tonight. Wanda Randle-McKay
Me too.
But you are never really alone when you have your own company.
Bingo😃
Me too. But lonley lol…
So true
You are absolutely right!
That is so true
Your absolutely right friend.
So true.
I would rather be alone than be lonley being with someone. Been there done that.
so true
Me also
I felt like dying the other day but then I went to a deep sleep and woke up one morning and realize that I’m wasting my time with the human flesh who I thought was my forever. It turns out that it’s not him I’m missing I am missing myself that I’m hurt that I lost myself more than I’m hurt that the relationship has ended
This is SO real & deep and your acknowledgment of what happened is huge & will help u move forward to grow! U will find yourself and don’t lose yourself ever again! Smile bc are not alone in your feelings and growth is wonderful! Be blessed!
No. You’re not lost for good. You’re just in limbo while you figure things out.
End is new bigining
Dorothy Ann Franklin god is with you sweetie. Your not alone
IT takes time it’s not over night but one thing I do know you have to fight for You
You are right.But to me it is hard. I will Come around in time. Thank you for the words. Mary Elizabeth
God bless you with a second chance get to know you and enjoy your time getting to know what you want or don’t want it’s beautiful
Patty Diaz-Hernandez But you must believe there is healing! Not believing in healing you are quitting of the possibilities to grow and to heal and to over come
Trut
Yes and no. Yes is because I only have my children and grandchildren and they grow up and leave.No is don’t need a man in my life,because after being with my husband twenty years, No one can come close to take his place ever and we are not together by choice.Cancer took him from me 3years ago and feel’s like the pain is a open wound that will Never heal.😢
Anjali ever thing happens for a reason just move on I also thought my best friend who I care about it ended up she care less about me.please get over the hurt and no you did not waste your time with the human flesh I am sure your forever missing you also . Cheer up put a smile on your face 😃.
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That’s real talk!!!!!
Have faith
Well said,
Dorothy I totally understand the need to be honest to yourself first and foremost. In this new place, given time I’m sure you will eventually find Friends. Good luck mate 😊
Im so connfused
i lost myself…an found my happy person after 19 years.. now 1 1/2 years along.. a new country..a new change… i am new…yes i still miss a lot..yes i miss my country.. yes i feel a failure..but best of all….i feel ..myself !!! an if i died tomorrow..yes i wont have a lot of friends or family with me or miss me..but i am now me !!!
I do miss my happy self so I miss me. Good point
We all get lost in a relationship that’s why it’s important to regularly keep in touch with friends
It does sound like it was a relationship. Congratulations you’re going to be ok
That was me 3 years ago, when I decided to get out. Still fighting that As#/^^, who is not doing what he is supposed to, so the pain ends!
That’s how my relationship is.
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That is the truth. Well done. Relationships can really mess with who you are.
That is a great awakening/enlightenment… Best wishes to you🌸🍥🐞
Good
I’m afraid now at this point in my life….I can honestly say I have never experience a great relationship with a man…but it’s better to be alone than with the wrong person….I have some acceptance with it… God will.bless me with the right man…..in His time…
1john 5:14 . Xx
That lovely scripture
To all of you who replied to my text about asking God for your mate. Remember that you first must believe in him with all your heart. You cannot do as some said if he exists. He will not help you if you do not accept him. Next your prayer should be sincere and from the heart and said outloud behind closed doors so that you are communicating to him and him alone. Once you make your prayer then believe he will answer it or better yet know he will. You cannot question whether he will respond. Its called faith. Remember he said if you have the faith of a mustard seed you could move mountains. So, have faith and he will answer your prayer. Remember also he said Ask and Ye Shall Receive. God bless all of you.
Luzel Hangcan Carreon leave half of your closet empty for him, and sleep on your side of the bed. He will come soon, I promise.
Eoin Quinn …Eoin Quinn have you ever really had enough faith to allow God to change your life? Also God puts our own lives in our own hands and gives US the power of choices. We have to make our own lives the best we can.God is there to guide us.
I was alone by choice for 7 years..didn’t want to date & was fine..all my serious relationships never lasted! My youngest graduated & when I found myself alone I was still content! So I thought.. I fell in love with my oldest & best friends brother who lived in another state.. We had a long distance relationship for over 2 years.. Moved here 18 hours away from family and friends, it took me more than 6 months to accept someone taking care of me & me of him..I am very lucky woman as he is the man I wanted & needed in my life all these years! We are very happy! Finally someone to grow old with & we are best friends…getting married next year..
Eoin Quinn have you ever really had enough faith to allow God to change your life? Also God puts our own lives in our own hands and gives US the power of choices. We have to make our own lives the best we can.God is there to guide us.
When God comes in to it that’s me finished, god if there is a God never done anything ever for anybody
You are younger than me and in the exact same position. I feel the same way. I’m 47 and not a Barbie and feel I’ve just never find that special person.
I believe that God has the right man for me, in His time. I’m not just sitting at home waiting for the door bell to ring either. I am ready to eventually remarry. I didn’t want to for many years.
Me too .i felt so alone its been 2 and a half years and i really thought my heart would ever heal .thankfuĺly i have my dog and its somethink to make me get up .im blessed with two beautiful grandchildren ….i now feel my heart is healing .but im not looking for a soulmate anymore ..if its meant to be it willbe …
Me too Diane Thomas
I have been praying for so long still no answer. Still trusting God to come through for. I don’t have kids either. Sometimes I do get lonely
What? …. God wants you to be without a loving husband? Wow… I can see that you are praying to the wrong god.
If you ask God to bring the person into your life that he had planned for you he will answer your prayer
He did it for me when I prayed to him and asked it of him. I met her one week later and have been so happily married for forty six years. God answers prayers.
Pamela,I give the same testimony,I have never found a good man who really cares for me no matter how caring or understanding I am. They always just walk away or I have to move on
I felt the same way you did I lost two wives it took me a while to date now I found a good woman
I’m not afraid now….I found my love…my heart….and my all….I was afraid…had accepted it….then when I resigned myself to being happy being alone…..its when I found the love of my life
Great for you! Glad to hear you found something that makes you happy.
I was lost didn’t know who I was and feel that whatever is going to happen and in the end it but I found Jehovah God and he answers all my prayers that’s all I need
Same here, praise the lord !!!
Angela Langston Smith I was in an abusive relationship for 9 months….2 months ago, he got out of jail, pushed his way into my home and attacked me with a knife. Trust me, I know what just coming out of an abusive relationship is like….my love was there through it all as a friend…he can handle the chaos that is my life sometimes and he loves and accepts me for it….
When you find that one for you, the fear will completely disappear….trust me, i speak from current experience. My love is truly a gift sent from the heavens (literally…My late husband past away 10 yrs ago and I swear sent my love to me because he’s just SO beyond perfect for me)…your fear will disappear as you heal…hold on to whatever faith you believe in that your diety will send someone perfect for you :-).
Me too😳👍🏼❤️
It’s good to step away, find that piece of you, look around and decide, where next? No rush, try to relax if you can and begin to trust you again
45 been divorced 8 yrs. and have been out of a bad emotional abuse relationship for a year and a half. I’m scared now to be involved with anyone but scared maybe somehow I might end up alone .
Yes … It usually happens after you work on yourself first 😊🌻
Sometimes looking too hard you cannot see
Very well written my friend! I can def understand exactly where ur coming from w this statement.at one point i was very afraid of not being able to find anyone i cld truely be genuinely happy with for the rest of my life.i had dated too many assholes who really didnt give a fuck. And ppl who just always had to be in a relationship. Then i starred to worry about being alone forever.now thats a very scary thought. U need someone to be ur rock ur comforter ur pillow ur child father & help support u & push u into everything u love & have a passion for that u had given up on because of the depression of being alone n afraid.i definitely was not looking for a man or even any friends when i came upon MY babylove. Its crazy but we met in a rehab program. & we never thought it wld turn into this 8 long beautiful ,struggling, Never giving up on each other kind if love!! But it happened. Never thought i cld love anyone the way i love Michael! Its insane Im 25 & been w Mike Waters for a long time. August will be 8 years! Thats rare for ppl my age. esp if u have no children together. & of course we have hard times & fight & dnt talk for a while …but we r always there for one another @ the end of the day & esp when we really need one another for any reason & thats what really counts! To me anyway.
Sorry for rambling on n on lol. Just had to get what was on my mind out there . lol
Congrats to you. And I eish you great luck.
Same here🙏🏾😇
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It’s better to be alone than with people who actually make you feel alone! I was never alone until this past year in which I’ve discovered I’m not afraid as I feared I’d be. I’m content.
So true,Angi!
Amen
I am an only who married an only….I have buried my mother, my late husband and his mother. I am also childless…but I am far from alone. I love my time alone….as others have said, loneliness and being alone are not the same. I have friends who get me and know me…I work outside of the home but I also volunteer and like doing recreational things alone. I am content….
Ok happy to know
You are very fortunate.
Me too. My boyfriend don’t have time for me even just a simple hello everyday. However I still feel blessed because I have friends and I have God in me .
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When I first became alone it was so lonely but now I like it a whole bunch my husband was verbally abusive and he told me I was too clean and everything had to be in place please he was not neat could you imagine getting told off because I am best and clean there is no more verbal abuse it is gone I feel free who need to clean up after some one love your self be happy with the ones in your life and enjoy life is short I LOVE BEING ALONE I am so blessed and lucky no one to yell and curse at
I just broke up today with someone ive been with for eight years. He was verbally abusive. Narcissistic. He will NEVER admit to his wrongs…let alone even know what they are. I am sad and still afraid to be alone again back into a dating world….
There ìs reply and willnai
It’s funny how you can find the things or people you most need on your life when you are not desperately searching for them… Peace within
No am never afraid of bring alone..God is with me!
I got God too and my parents watch over me from heaven. We aren’t alone being close to God.
God is with you Luttz. I used to worry about being alone as I getter older but now as you rightly said God is with me.
Amen
I’m not scared to be alone and never have been. When my husband was still living he could work any hour and it didn’t bother me and I never understood the words feeling alone. but when my husband passed then I understood what people mean when they say they are alone.
Yeah I know its nothing like having that special someone to come home to or to be there waiting on them.
Not so scared but more scared to be hurt by anyone. Thats more scary
I do too
hello
Hi
This is so weird, I just was thinking about that… I feel alone all the time and I feel like there’s a social presure to be always in a relationship or having fun with someone or whatever that makes me feel so bad. I really think I’ll be alone forever, like nobody wants to be with me
It’s not them….it’s you girl. Get out of your head.
Being on your own and loneliness are not the same. Start to enjoy your own company, when you are a happy person, other people are drawn to you,strangers are only friends you haven’t met. Good luck in your future! xx
All the best to you Brenda 🙂
Gracias, all your messages are so inspiring, thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
I will never force, i advise you take this time to build yourself up, educate yourself and learn how life works and find your interests and express to this vast universe what you would like out of your long life. During this time you will meet someone who will throw you off your tracks, or guide you to your ultimate goal.
So true. We are not that far apart. It’s a illusion. We all togeher but TV & movies presure u s to be romantasize love and I love being in love. I’m not happy alone. But people bug me lol catch 22 . It sucks!
Thank you so much! 😘
Hon get yourself a pet if you haven’t one already. Learn to enjoy your own company and you will never feel alone. Forget what society dictates – society knows nothing about you. You are a wonderful person – start treating yourself as such.
You took the words out of my mouth! This is exactly how I feel!
being alone is healthy to and for self awareness.
Yes!!!! All my life I’ve had a fear of being alone and lonely. I’m afraid to die alone, to not have a partner to come home to, share the days ups and downs with, laugh and cry with. Just to sit in silence with my loved one would be heaven. Yes, I understand abandonment issues, codependency issues, fear issues. After 2 failed marriages, infertility, and having been adopted, I’m afraid. I have no living adopted family. Yes, my friends are lovely and fulfill a great many areas in my life, but I’m built to be part of a team. I want to be in a relationship … with zero idea how to be. So yes, I am AFRAID.
God Bless you as well Valerie
Hi Lynda, I have found my birth mother. She wants nothing to do with me. I’m her dirty little secret. Long sad story….I appreciate your encouragement, thank you
God bless you!
You may find living relative you don’t know about.
Ancestory.com DNA test you can find relatives maybe your mom and siblings. Ect they will love you.
The fear I have is not finding the love of my life and fulfilling the dreams that I had of living with that soul mate for the rest of my life. And enjoying what dreams we make together. I just hope and pray that I find that person and not have to be alone.
yup..me too
I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND!!!!
Step into self awareness
Better to be alone then with someone that makes you miserable. Just went thru 6 years of being with someone that made me feel more alone then what i feel like actually being alone. And i don’t feel like im walking on eggshells . going on 19 months now of not being alone all by myself alone.
Some people just make you feel like crap, alone even tho they are there. The narcopath cuts you off from the rest of the world.
I have friends. Keeping my circle small tho. You find out who your real friends are during difficult times. But i won’t do the love thing again, will not trust another one, ever. And I’m really good with that.
Gail Joy Abbott yes you will. Don’t give up on love & friendship just yet. I have a feeling
Gail Joy Abbott, thank you. I’m definitely taking things slow. Much slower than he would like, but thankfully he’s been patient. He knows that I’ve been hurt in the past. I’m actually a disabled vet with chronic pain issues and he’s been the 1st man I’ve been with that actually has empathy. I never thought I’d find that quality in a man.
I’m so sorry that you were treated so badly. Unfortunately, there are many men that seem to flip a switch once they have you. I have trust issues as well. I hope your injury heals quickly and without much pain. I also have a dog. My bloodhound has helped me through some pretty tough times. Dogs are the best!
Wish you lots of luck Brenda Cassidy. Thought i had found that too back in 09′ after being alone raising my kids and working after divorce in 01′. But what i found, this sweet wonderful guy that made me believe that i was his world and he wanted to slend the rest of his life with me, was nothing more then a sorry pos narcopath. Once sucked into his trap then he cut me off from everyone, including my own children (tried anyways). And he stole everything from me too.
Took him a whole 2 months 12 days after i was gone for him to marry his next victim.
Just be careful. I’m sure that i will never trust another one. So just me and my dog here and we are just fine. Only time that i wish i jad someone around if im kind of hurt right now and going to be another 12 weeks or so that im one armed. Not fun when you need 5 gallons water, or try to even eat or fix food, etc one handed. Laundry and even showering it a big chore right now. But I’ll survive.
I was in a relationship that made me feel more alone than when I was actually on my own as well. I spent about 3 years alone just getting to know myself and I learned that I really enjoyed meeting myself again. I also learned the things that I would and wouldn’t put up with if I decided to date again. Then, out of the blue one day, I met the love of my life. It always seems to happen when you aren’t looking. I hope you find happiness. And yes, it’s much better to be alone than with someone who abuses you, or takes you for granted.
So true